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Holding hand feeling

Discussion in 'Chit Chat' started by Andstillimhere7, Dec 10, 2013.

  1. Andstillimhere7

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    Does anyone else feel a warm feeling inside when holding the same sex hand because whenever I hold a boys hand I feel so good and relaxed. For example I sometimes hold my friends hand, but not to the point of creepiness, and it feels great, but anytime I feel a girls hand it's like meh not my thing but for a guy it's like :icon_bigg:, now imagine a kiss. How do you feel?
     
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    Yes, absolutely. My heart starts racing, I get this goofy grin, we usually kiss once or twice (or maybe a little bit more), and we both lean against each other and there's just this feeling of security that I just feel
     
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    Don't like holding hands. With anyone. It always had a first teen love vibe about it to me, though I've seen adults and even seniors do it, so whom am I to judge?

    It's only for pulling someone up a slope or a boulder.
     
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    Awww, I just realized I've never held another guy's hand. :tears:

    *sing it like Rammstein* Mir ist kalt, so kalt!
     
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    Honey, I'm an old man, and holding a mans hand melts my heart into such a warm puddle I just wanna splash in it forever!
     
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    I like how guys hand feel especially when it moist. Omg it's wonderful unfortunately I don't have a boyfriend to hold hands with, so I hold my friends hand in a discreet way such as in group activity or handshakes without being creepy.
     
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    Ah, romantics. I love them. Maybe because I suck at it. :confused: Um, I've never felt comfortable holding hands with anyone really. My hands are extremely sensitive to touch. (A symptom of Aspergers) So anyone I've held hands with, it was either painful or ticklish. I found intertwining fingers as painful and the lazy, diagonal hold as ticklish. :icon_conf
     
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    Well, I've only ever held hands with a guy before and I felt nothing. Honestly, it was more of a pain than anything else. Maybe it's different for me with girls?
     
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    This melted my heart. I am totally a romantic, so yes, holding hands makes me feel like I'm being warmed up from the inside out. I also love to cuddle. :grin:
     
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    That does sound beautiful. Thank you for sharing it.
     
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    I'm such a romantic, but the last time I held someone's hand I didn't like it. It felt awkward. Though, he did keep changing our hands position and saying, "No, THIS is how to hold a hand!" I'm looking forward to being able to hold someone's hand and having it be easy.
     
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    HAHAHA. That made me laugh. I can't imagine being told how to hold someones hand.
     
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    It was pretty awkward. :grin: Apparently he knew the "best" ways to hold hands because he practiced with his friends.
     
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    I really need touch. It's pretty important to me. Whomever my partner is. I've had... I've had a lot of ugly things happen to me in my past, and when someone holds my hand or kisses me or touches my leg... It makes me feel like a little bit more of a person for a minute. The girl at the salon massaged my scalp the other day and it made me feel so good...
    So yeah being touched is pretty important to me. Even if it sounds lame to the rest of you :slight_smile:
     
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    Tracks... oh

    yes.

    touch... don't sound lame to me at all.
     
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    Holding a guy's hand is like a magical feeling and I feel alive and all my worries just temporarily vanish.
     
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    I think I appreciate it so much because of how symbolic it is rather than the actually feeling itself, just knowing that someone is with you and that you're safe makes it all the more enjoyable. Too bad I haven't got anyone to share it with. :stuck_out_tongue_closed_eyes:
     
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    I just think holding hands in general is like a bonding thing (both girls, boys, or whatever). It makes me feel connected with them I guess?

    I especially like feeling the strength/warmth in a boy's hand....that sounds kind of weird but meh, whatever.