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If you had to come out

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  1. Andstillimhere7

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    If you had to come out how would it be? I would gather all my friends after baking a cake and tell them to close there eyes and then they would taste the cake. I would ask them how it taste. Then they would open there eyes and the inside of the cake would have the gay flag pattern and I would say that I'm gay and even though I'm different in the inside I'm still sweet. The cake would me: a plain icing on the outside and in the inside the gay flag pattern. Same on the outside, different on the inside but sweet overall.
     
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    I don't know im actually going to come out tonight to someone dear to me and I'm just going to come right out and say it :icon_redf
     
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    Good luck, hope it works out
     
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    Thanks he actually might be homophobic so I'm very nervous but I'm tired of living a lie I think he deserves to know the truth.
     
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    I really like the cake idea. I think I might steal that. XD
     
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    I wish I had done something special like a cake or sitting them down, I just casually outed myself to friends and family and it didn't feel very special. :frowning2:
     
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    If I could rewind and do it over, I'd probably not feel a need to come out to anyone but those I might be dating. And then if it was a guy I'd treat it like no big deal, didn't you know all along?

    Never would have figured that when looking back to how I felt though. I was semi-paranoid in worry about it.
     
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    I'd probably get into my email and hit "Reply to All" and just type, "I'm gay."
     
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    Haha Awesome idea lol
    (!)
     
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    Skywriting would be fun. Perhaps accidentally leak a video of me in a compromising position.
     
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    How did you come out?
     
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    If I had to come out it would be when I have a man and he was noticeably homo. That way it would be easy to speak about.
     
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    I dont want to come out because people here anything other than straight and assume gay, when I dont think I am. Im more bisexual, if not demisexual. But people love to assume so meh whatever. Closets comfortable I have Internet and ice cream :grin:
     
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    For me there is no room for me and my romantic personality who wants to come, there is no air, no room, no love, no point, but on the bright side there a barrier to help from harm.

    ---------- Post added 14th Dec 2013 at 05:33 PM ----------
    Ice cream! Is there room for one more
     
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    Pshh there might just be room for one more, but hurry cause this ice cream is really good and I cant control myself.:lol:
     
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    At my dance studio, I have to wear wings for one act. In my most elaborate fantasy coming out I would tie a rainbow flag around my neck as a cape instead of the wings and go through the show like that XD
     
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    I more or less just in the middle while my friends were talking about hot guys, blurted out a hot girl and then they stared at me and I just casually said "I'm bi." The same happened for my dad. Only a few of my friends and my mom got told specially but even then it was pretty conversational...
     
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    I only plan to come out when I get a girlfriend. Then I could introduce her and say we're dating. And no one could deny it and say I'm confused cause it would be real. Especially when it comes to my family, they'd just have to accept it.
     
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    I don't want to come out to my family to be honest , I'm slowly distancing myself from them because i know their all gonna hate me so why bother to be close to relatives anymore
     
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    I'd make myself an outfit with the pan colors/flag on it, and hide in a closet. Then when someone found me, I'd jump out and do an epic dance routine.
     
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