I always dreamed of my ex having a new bf, having a baby and getting married. I know this is possible because my ex gf just turned 25 and at this age they are required to have someone to settle down with. (this what caused our breakup, parents wants her to find a man). I know for a fact that after me, %99 possibility that the next guy will be the one she will marry..and it hurts so bad. I'm really having a hard time accepting the fact that we're not together anymore and its killing me. I planned our future. I wanna marry her someday. I wanna have kids with her. (via sperm donor) It freakin hurts to imagine that the next guy is a very lucky guy..(I wished it was me..) I hate this feeling. :tears: Sorry to share. I just can't take it anymore. :icon_sad:
It's okay to take a while to accept that the two of you are no longer together. Over time, the memories will become less painful. You can and will still have a chance to have kids, and have a family of your own. Things have a way of working out. (*hug*)
Aw, I am so sorry to hear... :-( It must be very hard for you.. :-( Well, there is chance that you will indeed end u being her hisband, wouldn't you think? Hang in there! Andi
Yes it will take time..Thank you (*hug*)..I'm trying to enjoy life right now and hopefully I will not dream of it for the nth time :eusa_doh: I do hope the next will not leave me for the same reason. Oh ftm life..(&&&) ---------- Post added 30th Dec 2013 at 09:01 AM ---------- I am still hoping..Thank you (*hug*)
I know how you feel... After my ex-boyfriend broke up with me, it took awhile for the dreams of him to stop. It was especially hard since we had a lot of the same life values and were just so in sync with each other. The dreams will eventually stop, you'll eventually come to the realization that you two probably won't ever get back together, and you'll eventually move on. There'll always be that part of you that still loves your ex, but you'll at least know that there's someone out there that'll be more of a match for you and will love you and never leave you. Keep up the hope; your true love is out there for you. (*hug*)
almost 2 years..:icon_sad: ---------- Post added 30th Dec 2013 at 10:41 AM ---------- Thank you so much (*hug*) I hope moving on doesn't take that long..My life was really affected from the day we broke up..I wish I could make time move faster..hehe true love..hopefully..(*hug*)
whats that saying time heals all, and this too shall pass. it will pass and you will get over it but its just a rough ride right now. youll come out the other side a new/better person and soon wonder what you were so hung up about. but for now try to keep busy it will help you no think about her so much (*hug*)
Thank you..(*hug*) Yes I will try to keep myself busy so that I will not think about her anymore..I have new plans on 2014, hopefully it will be a better year..(*hug*)
I hate ruining the endings of stories..:dry: But you will make it through this.. you are too strong not to! U^ω^U
