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Offensive Comments You've Heard?

Discussion in 'Chit Chat' started by PurpleGrey, Dec 29, 2013.

  1. PurpleGrey

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    Hey, evvies!

    So, y'all have seen those YouTube vids, the ones where dumb folks say dumb things. So, I figured, let's all share our own experiences of non-LGBT folks and the dumb suit they say.

    For example, here are some things that have been said/asked to me, personally.

    "Yeah, I knew this chick who said she was gay, but then the turned out straight."

    "So you're bi? Does that mean you're into, like, goats and stuff?"

    "So, would you ever three some?"

    Okay, evvies, what crazy shit have y'all heard from dumb folks? Bet there's some really unbelievable stories out there, huh.
     
  2. AwesomGaytheist

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    "So are you the man or the woman when you two have sex?"

    Um, I'm GAY. That means I like MEN, and NOT women. There's no woman involved here!"
     
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    I used to get messages from guys on dating sites asking me what made me give up on men. :lol:
     
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    One person once said to me they didn't care I'm queer, and they'll love me no matter what.
     
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    My teacher in middle school said he would never let his son be around gay people. I asked him how he would know who was gay and who wasn't and how he planned to keep his son away from gay people.

    I've also heard, "As long as you are not choosing to be gay I'm okay with it."

    "If we let gay people get married, what's to stop people from marrying children, animals, trees, etc."

    "Were you sexually abused as a kid?"

    "Maybe your gay because your dad didn't love you."

    "Maybe you should try dating some more girls"- proposed as a solution when I came out by a well-intentioned friend.

    When I came out- "I thought you were acting gayer than you usually do recently."
    Me- WTF?!?

    and finally my personal favorite- "Who cares? You know I love you no matter what. If you want to have sex swinging from a chandelier making monkey noises, that doesn't bother me, and it's none of my business. Do what makes you happy." - My family. I am so blessed with a loving family.
     
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    "Cool"
    "Oh really?"

    Boring, sorry.

    ---------- Post added 30th Dec 2013 at 12:15 AM ----------

    However this is AMAZING.
     
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    "ugh, I wish I could be gay, life would be so much easier!"

    -my friend when he said he wanted be gay because he doesn't get along with women. :rolle:
     
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    Very recently, on Boxing Day, I went out clubbing and a guy from work said 'I don't want to dance near his kind. They get the wrong idea'.

    Of course, this guy is like 3/10 at best and I'd rather shoot my dick off than go near his. I don't understand why straight people automatically assume members of LGBT are apparently horny perverts. For me, it's almost the complete opposite. I'm so not sexual, I considered myself asexual for a year, haha.

    But yeah, my one pet hate in life that boils my blood. Straight guys thinking I'm going to attempt to bang them simply for being bisexual. I mean, they don't assume every straight female wants to bang them, in fact quite the opposite so... >.>
     
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    I got that one a bit from a guy I knew. I quickly distanced myself from him. He got even more misogynistic throughout the year, and I wondered how I could even have though of him as anything more than a humanoid shit-stain before.

    That guy considers male homosexuality as the best sexuality because it involves no women. As in semi-divine, something to be looked up to. Usually misogynists hate homosexuality, but this was even creepier. It was so messed up.
     
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    This may seem a little calloused toward women, but they have made more subtle, but snide remarks.

    I had a dentist I had been to about 4 times, 6 months apart. I was in my mid 30s or so. I liked this dentist. He didn't find anything wrong and all I needed was cleanings. He had this hygienist. She was a middle aged mom with a couple of kids and was from South Florida. All we ever did was small talk, in between rinses. I'd go in wearing work attire, only had 1 antidepressant on my medical record, had good dental health, and my record indicated "S" for single. I was getting my teeth cleaned and heading to vacation in a month.

    Hygienist: "Where are you going?"
    Me: "Florida. Fort Lauderdale, I'm staying at the Marriott, the Tampa Bay area, and the panhandle."
    Hygienist: "Will you be going to Keeeeey Wessssst?" (same tone you hear on TV as in "is he gaaaaayyyy?")
    Me: "No." (Thinking about saying "Bitch, if I was going to Key West, I would have told you," but also thinking I had a dentist who wasn't a salesman who didn't nickel and dime).


    So nosy. So insulting of one's intelligence. So unprofessional.
     
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    "With men, there is no such thing as bisexual. If you like men you are a faggot, period."
     
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    About my gender, but:

    "Are you sure you are a girl? I have never noticed you being girly growing up, it might be that you are gay and confused"

    Because apparently preferring to play with girls, enjoying playing with dolls, jumpropes, girly games and girly TV shows = you are a man who love other men. You know, instead of being a girl. :bang:

    -

    Well I have heard people use "man" and "woman" as slang for top and bottom for some reason, so hopefully it wasn't meant bad even if it obviously is a silly thing to say.
     
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    "Do you think that bis will get to be married in Utah now? With polygamy and all there you could be with whatever you prefer each night!"

    This was my dad who I've slowly becoming aware is a bit more sexist and insensitive than I thought. When I called him out on it, the rest of my family defended him saying I was overreacting.
     
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    Today, someone said I must be a "trans trender" because I'm FTM and apparently, every trans person is "tumblr trans".
    I showed her this.

    Political Values
    Progressivism 37.5 Socialism 43.75 Tenderness 21.875

    Your test scores indicate that you are a tough-minded conservative; this is the political profile one might associate with a nihilist. It appears that you are tolerant towards religion, and have an indifferent and uncompassionate attitude towards humanity in general.

    Your attitudes towards economics appear neither committedly capitalist nor socialist, and combined with your social attitudes this creates the picture of someone who would generally be described as a neoconservative.

    To round out the picture you appear to be, political preference aside, a uncompromising radical egalitarian with an established worldview.

    (From the Social Attitude Test from that one Fun and Games thread. Wow, I've changed...)
     
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    A psychiatrist I saw asked me if I was gay because of the lack of father figure in my life.

    Erm. No. Safe to say I don't see her anymore.
     
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    My mom said not to come to her wedding (a new husband) if I was coming with a male date. She also said gay people would not be welcome in her house. I said I guess I'm not welcome in your house now. There was at least one gay person at her wedding, me.
     
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    Not appropriate.

    Equal time to bash on men. First time at a new doctor. Short, nerdy Jewish guy with dark curly hair and squirly face (not attractive), bur married. Sure, MD = $. He comes in, looks at my chart, there's no medical history of any import, I was mid 30s and single, and first question was "Have you had any homosexual experiences?" Like I'd tell you, you piece of garbage. The tone was entirely nosy, and not prophylactic or preventive. Since I only went every 6 months, I got my Zoloft scrip and vitals checked ... and got out of his office as soon as possible. I could have kicked myself for not having a good comeback to his first question.
     
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    "Are you gay?" (There is no 25-word answer to this question)

    "That's so gay!" (I have a response to this, which is "Please don't say dumb shit like that!")

    "I don't have a problem with people who choose to be gay" (Lady, nobody "chooses" to be gay, being gay chooses them)

    "I'm not homophobic, I have several gay friends" (I have several friends too, but no hyphenated gay-friends, they are just my friends)

    "I don't like faggots" ("I don't like assholes")

    "I don't know any gay people" (Oh, yes you do)
     
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    "It leads to sex with dogs!!!!"
     
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    Were said at my brothers 21'st birthday by dad..(keep in mind im not out to my family)

    Sober: "You could be like that little faggot of a fairy."
    Buzzed: " All gays wanna do are. f*ck each other."
    About there...: "all them queers need to..to.. do is not exist."
    Sh*t faced: (he was slurring his words.. it sorta sounded like he said something about hell, a pickle, and queer)

    me on the outside : (^-^; ・・・・ me on the inside: ㅠ.ㅠ