If someone asked you to marry them...

Heh, I would decline and go curl up in a ball with my dog. That's a risk I don't want to take, as I've grown up with a psychopath. I would be okay with being alone.

 

Here is my take on it. I do not want to be with anyone who I am not in love with. I am not going to marry someone just to get married even If it means I can never be in a relationship ever again, because I do not want to take a chance on being in a empty loveless marriage if that makes sense.

 

I would have to say I'd give up on a relationship.

I couldn't take the risk, especially if I wasn't sure at all if they'd even be halfway decent or someone I liked...let alone be forever stuck with the guy.

I have yet to really date or be in a relationship anyways, so it's not like my life would be too much different, haha.

 

Been there. Done that. Won't do it again. It would have to be a guy that was my soul mate. We would have to move to a state where gay marriage is legal.

 

Reminds me of "The Taming of the Shrew." Poetic in comedy and romance, yet I've never trusted the authority of romantic-comedies upon reality. Plus I sorta hate "The Taming of the Shrew."

 

it has to be done right...I can't warn about that enough

with that said I am on 10.5 years of marriage and going super strong

Foxface

 

Of course, it's a no brainier. Get a prenup and if you don't like them divorce.

 

Waaa I answered yes!lol but it depends.

 

I wouldn't ever! Not being in a relationship is okay. I could just grow old and live with my sister, and we could support each other!

 

Absolutely most definitely not.

I've pretty much already planned on never being in a relationship in the first place, so to run off and pull something like this would define insanity for me.

 

Not only is it a risk with very high stakes, but it is one with a low chance of being better than a marriage where you very deliberately choose your partner. Absolute silliness to say yes IMO.

 

Truthfully, I don't think it would be that bad, because....

Chercheur, said that I couldn't leave. If he turns out to be a psychopath, he'll just have to leave....................in a stretcher!

Loopholes! ^_^

 

Yes. I am a love whore.
And plus why not? Lol it's a 50/50. It thy psycho I'll just become psycho with them.

 

Thats actually a pretty difficult question, especially given that the chance of them being the 'one true love' is 50% rather than approx 1 in 7 billion like it would be normally. Maybe the stretcher loophole is worth some thought...

 

I don't know if I ever wanna marry let alone a stranger

 

I'd do it. If I were living miserably with a psycho, at least that would be my life and I would be responsible for that. Sounds more interesting than anything I've known my whole life anyway.