My gaydar has been set off! - Empty Closets - A safe online community for gay, lesbian, bisexual, transgendered people coming out

ccdd · 25th Jun 2008, 05:22 PM

I know that these threads are pointless as there's no real way of knowing except by asking, but I know this girl (not very well), and I was getting "vibes" off her the other day, to the extent that I started talking about this actress that I thought was "hot". She didn't respond weirdly to this, but rather agreed with me, and we spent time joking around.

Because of these vibes I looked at her Facebook page and:

Listed as "Single" but no "Interested In" specified
Likes to watch (amongst other things): Xena, the L Word, Buffy, Bad Girls (not necessarily indicating lesbianism I know but you know what I mean - they have all had lesbian storylines/strands/vague suggestions in them!)
Amongst her favourite books has "Fingersmith" and "Tipping the Velvet" (which have lesbian storylines I believe??)

What do you think?? I think I will continue dropping hints from my side, which she will definately get if she IS gay or bi... (I don't know her well enough to ask yet)

Not really or necessarily for a relationship, but for general companionship, and also because I want to see if my gaydar is working!! Do you think it is??

LOVEjames · 25th Jun 2008, 05:38 PM

She has teh lesbianz.

Beebo · 25th Jun 2008, 06:45 PM

She Has Massive Lesbosis.

Tim · 25th Jun 2008, 06:47 PM

Maybe she's Lesbanese? >.>

Hoppip · 25th Jun 2008, 06:50 PM

She bats for our team.

AND SHE BATS WELL.

Malchik89 · 25th Jun 2008, 06:53 PM

normal waves go: beep beeb beep beep
your friend on the other hand: BEEEP BEEEEEEP BEEEEAPOSIDHF;LASDHFASODFH

yea id say your dar is pretty accurate xD

Tim · 25th Jun 2008, 06:54 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Malchik89

normal waves go: beep beeb beep beep
your friend on the other hand: BEEEP BEEEEEEP BEEEEAPOSIDHF;LASDHFASODFH

yea id say your dar is pretty accurate xD

You made me spit my soda all over the screen

It was my first soda in months too >_<

Too funny XD

LOVEjames · 25th Jun 2008, 06:55 PM

Whenever someone puts random letters like that on the screen, I always sound it out.

Malchik89 · 25th Jun 2008, 07:00 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Tim

Quote:

Originally Posted by Malchik89

normal waves go: beep beeb beep beep
your friend on the other hand: BEEEP BEEEEEEP BEEEEAPOSIDHF;LASDHFASODFH

yea id say your dar is pretty accurate xD

You made me spit my soda all over the screen

It was my first soda in months too >_<

Too funny XD

my sympathies to your soda!

TyraBanksIsFierce · 25th Jun 2008, 09:01 PM

fucking loved bad girls.

shakerdancee · 25th Jun 2008, 09:11 PM

You guys should fuck.

LOVEjames · 25th Jun 2008, 09:12 PM

Oh dear. xD

Andrew · 25th Jun 2008, 09:15 PM

oo. bang bang :P. It sounds like she is

and i think your right ^.^

Malchik89 · 25th Jun 2008, 09:16 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by shakerdancee

You guys should fuck.

or you know..hello is a good opener too xD

TyraBanksIsFierce · 25th Jun 2008, 11:10 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by shakerdancee

You guys should fuck.

hot

26th Jun 2008, 01:35 AM

Hahah, as I said before, I know very few straight girls (well.. actually none!!) who have even heard of, let alone watched the L word.. but still, no way of knowing untill you ask!!

heatqueen · 26th Jun 2008, 01:38 AM

Beep!!! BEEEEEP!!!! BEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEPPPPPPPPPP!!!!!

Those are classic 'gay' signs. And my own facebook profile has so many of them (yet no one's asked me LOL!!!)

She's definitely not straight.

musicgirl112233 · 26th Jun 2008, 08:50 AM

she has to be gay or bi.

Trumpetplyer23 · 26th Jun 2008, 08:54 AM

I would make some random comment about my gaydar going off, but I'm not that creative right now.

But I think you should get to know her better. Even if she's just a friend, you've got a good friend there.

jazzrawr · 26th Jun 2008, 08:56 AM

Definately, definately, DEFINATELY not straight if she watches the L Word.
No straight girl wants to see lesbians having sex. ^.^
Oh, good show...
And Tipping the Velvet and Fingersmith are both very lesbionic lol!
Both amazing movies ^.^
Although fingersmith was better than tipping the velvet.
ANYWHO!

Yes, get to know her more then ask

cause it's soooo nice having someone gay to talk to in real life, although EC is amazing we never get to talk face to face.

25th Jun 2008, 05:22 PM	#1
ccdd Procrastination Queen Full Member Gender: Female Orientation: Bisexual Out Status: 30(ish) friends, but mostly closeted. Out to mum Location: UK Posts: 1,009 Join Date: Nov 2007	My gaydar has been set off! I know that these threads are pointless as there's no real way of knowing except by asking, but I know this girl (not very well), and I was getting "vibes" off her the other day, to the extent that I started talking about this actress that I thought was "hot". She didn't respond weirdly to this, but rather agreed with me, and we spent time joking around. Because of these vibes I looked at her Facebook page and: Listed as "Single" but no "Interested In" specified Likes to watch (amongst other things): Xena, the L Word, Buffy, Bad Girls (not necessarily indicating lesbianism I know but you know what I mean - they have all had lesbian storylines/strands/vague suggestions in them!) Amongst her favourite books has "Fingersmith" and "Tipping the Velvet" (which have lesbian storylines I believe??) What do you think?? I think I will continue dropping hints from my side, which she will definately get if she IS gay or bi... (I don't know her well enough to ask yet) Not really or necessarily for a relationship, but for general companionship, and also because I want to see if my gaydar is working!! Do you think it is?? Last edited by ccdd; 25th Jun 2008 at 05:24 PM..

25th Jun 2008, 05:38 PM	#2
LOVEjames \o/ Love! Full Member Gender: Male Orientation: 4.9 Out Status: Pretty out Location: Seattle, WA Age: 21 Posts: 1,075 Join Date: Apr 2008	Re: My gaydar has been set off! She has teh lesbianz. __________________ La la la la la.

25th Jun 2008, 06:45 PM	#3
Beebo the cat what has facial hair. Full Member Gender: MAN Orientation: Gay Out Status: Out to everyone Location: Toronto Age: 23 Posts: 893 Join Date: Feb 2008	Re: My gaydar has been set off! She Has Massive Lesbosis. __________________ New Song up. a rough version of "The Ghost of Adam".(I will be adding more.)

25th Jun 2008, 06:47 PM	#4
Tim Psycho Glitter Btch Full Member Gender:* Guy, Unless Life Was a Horrible April Fools Joke. Orientation: Gay/Asexual/Confusing to Explain Out Status: Armed and Fabulous! XD Location: California Age: 23 Posts: 7,379 Join Date: Mar 2008	Re: My gaydar has been set off! Maybe she's Lesbanese? >.> __________________ Rawr! :3 ~The Stalker User Known As Tim~ Rawr! :3 EC's Sailor Star Healer, Oxymoron and All. Star Sensitive Inferno! Sailor Starlight, Stage On! [Vic] 7:49 pm: I keep my pants off in public.

25th Jun 2008, 06:50 PM	#5
Hoppip look at the good i do Full Member Gender: Lv. 18 ♂ Orientation: Water / Dragon Out Status: Uncommon Location: Johto Posts: 1,562 Join Date: May 2008	Re: My gaydar has been set off! She bats for our team. AND SHE BATS WELL. __________________ KUDOS ME. I made myshelf pregnant.

25th Jun 2008, 06:53 PM	#6
Malchik89 True as Blue Full Member Gender: Male Orientation: Gay Out Status: whomever cares enough to know Location: Illinois Age: 22 Posts: 647 Join Date: Jun 2008	Re: My gaydar has been set off! normal waves go: beep beeb beep beep your friend on the other hand: BEEEP BEEEEEEP BEEEEAPOSIDHF;LASDHFASODFH yea id say your dar is pretty accurate xD __________________ *"Haven't you heard? I'm the crazy bitch around here." (Blair Waldorf ~ Gossip Girl)* I am human and i need to be loved...just like everybody else does

25th Jun 2008, 06:55 PM	#8
LOVEjames \o/ Love! Full Member Gender: Male Orientation: 4.9 Out Status: Pretty out Location: Seattle, WA Age: 21 Posts: 1,075 Join Date: Apr 2008	Re: My gaydar has been set off! Whenever someone puts random letters like that on the screen, I always sound it out. __________________ La la la la la.

25th Jun 2008, 09:01 PM	#10
TyraBanksIsFierce EC Addict Full Member Gender: Male Orientation: Bisexual Out Status: Most~ Age: 19 Posts: 666 Join Date: Jan 2008	Re: My gaydar has been set off! fucking loved bad girls.

25th Jun 2008, 09:11 PM	#11
shakerdancee Oom-pah! Regular Member Gender: Male Orientation: Not sure Out Status: Anyone who asks Location: California Age: 19 Posts: 304 Join Date: Mar 2008	Re: My gaydar has been set off! You guys should fuck.

25th Jun 2008, 09:12 PM	#12
LOVEjames \o/ Love! Full Member Gender: Male Orientation: 4.9 Out Status: Pretty out Location: Seattle, WA Age: 21 Posts: 1,075 Join Date: Apr 2008	Re: My gaydar has been set off! Oh dear. xD __________________ La la la la la.

25th Jun 2008, 09:15 PM	#13
Andrew hugeee. Full Member Gender: Male Orientation: Gay Out Status: A few people Location: Illinois Posts: 550 Join Date: May 2008	Re: My gaydar has been set off! oo. bang bang :P. It sounds like she is and i think your right ^.^

26th Jun 2008, 01:35 AM	#16
yahooooo Guest Posts: n/a	Re: My gaydar has been set off! Hahah, as I said before, I know very few straight girls (well.. actually none!!) who have even heard of, let alone watched the L word.. but still, no way of knowing untill you ask!!

26th Jun 2008, 01:38 AM	#17
heatqueen Official #1 fan of Celine Dion Full Member Gender: Female Orientation: Pansexual/Homoromantic bisexual Out Status: Generally whoever asks Location: I travel a lot Age: 20 Posts: 5,703 Join Date: Jan 2008	Re: My gaydar has been set off! Beep!!! BEEEEEP!!!! BEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEPPPPPPPPPP!!!!! Those are classic 'gay' signs. And my own facebook profile has so many of them (yet no one's asked me LOL!!!) She's definitely not straight. __________________ Don't drink and drive. You might hit a bump and spill your drink. Co-founder of the 'Sailor Moon Made Me Gay' club...and the lesbians.

26th Jun 2008, 08:50 AM	#18
musicgirl112233 Soy Un Perdedor Full Member Gender: Female Orientation: Lesbian Out Status: Some people Location: South Carolina Age: 17 Posts: 939 Join Date: Apr 2008	Re: My gaydar has been set off! she has to be gay or bi. __________________ " Love looks not with the eyes, but with the mind, and therefore is winged Cupid painted blind." -A Midsummer Night's Dream Our differences provide opportunties for greater understanding.

26th Jun 2008, 08:56 AM	#20
jazzrawr Lover of Loony Lovegood Full Member Gender: Female Orientation: Lesimbean Out Status: I scream it from rooftops Location: Ontario, Canada. Age: 19 Posts: 3,391 Join Date: Feb 2008	Re: My gaydar has been set off! Definately, definately, DEFINATELY not straight if she watches the L Word. No straight girl wants to see lesbians having sex. ^.^ Oh, good show... And Tipping the Velvet and Fingersmith are both very lesbionic lol! Both amazing movies ^.^ Although fingersmith was better than tipping the velvet. ANYWHO! Yes, get to know her more then ask cause it's soooo nice having someone gay to talk to in real life, although EC is amazing we never get to talk face to face. __________________ <3 You can love people so much... But you can never love someone as much as you can miss them. (...and the lesbians.)

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