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Question randomly for Bi or lesbian girls

Discussion in 'Chit Chat' started by Darren18, Jan 6, 2014.

  1. Darren18

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    okay so i tho on making a question here, i personally had experiences with bisexual woman before, and found those girls to be quite fun to be around with, are you most leaned to man or woman youselves? (for the bi ones) or what would u preffer?

    and for the lesbian girls i know it sounds ridiculous cause i suppose being lesbian means you will only be with other girls, but what if a guy comes along trying to get to know you or be close to you, is that kind of disgust you or simply doesnt touch any feelings a' all?

    :slight_smile: just curiosity for the ones who want to asnwer
     
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    No preference and experience with both.
     
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    Pansexual so obviously no preference
     
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    If a guy came up to me and tried to get to know me I wouldn't necessarily be disgusted by it, but I guess it depends on that guys intentions with me, if they wanted to be just friends I would be cool with it but if they wanted more than no, and guys don't really give me those kinds of feelings so that's definitely a no.

    Which always confuses me, because when I meet guys and there trying to get close to me, I never know whether to tell them my sexuality haha 'cause if they didn't want to be with me and I said I was a lesbian I would feel a little conceded thinking they wanted something more. Also when guys hit on me and I tell them that I'm only interested in girls they all of a sudden don't want to be friends. Ah well it's a bit confusing.
     
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    I really can't tell when a guy is hitting on me or not but i mostly assume they just want to befriends and if they want more I will let them know i'm not interested . But i hadn't had to do that yet so it's all good
     
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    It's not that I like girls or boys better, it just depends I guess. I want myself to grow a liking to boys more, but girls are more visually attractive to me♥
     
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    I consider myself to be homosexual, but panromantic. So I'm attracted to other women, but I could feel emotionally and romantically connected to someone of any gender, or lack thereof. I've fallen for a man before, but I didn't exactly feel many things physically for him.

    So, while I'm mostly interested in dating women, if a man or non-binary individual were to approach me, I'd definitely talk to them. Build a friendship. See where it goes.
     
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    Well I'm pan but have a preference for guys...I think I'd feel a bit weird if ANYONE started trying to be all touchy-feely with me unless we were already well acquainted.
     
  10. Darren18

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    interesting, thanks for the asnwers :3
     
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    Being a lesbian, I would definitely be friends with a guy, but I would not consider dating one simply because I have no attraction to them. It's kind of like how you might see a rug at a store. You might say "Oh, well that's a nice rug".....but you wouldn't bang the rug. Men are like rugs to me.
     
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    Definite preference for woman, proved by the fact that my only relationships have been with women... But every now and then I do find myself attracted to a guy. No experience except a one-time fooling around in high school, but... When I really get down to thinking about it, I'm almost always only sexually attracted to guys. Not romantically. Romantically, I think it's always just been women.
     
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    I think I'm panromantic (don't consider it much of a label though). Also, I get attracted to androgynous males with long hair, but not sexually.
     
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    I'm bi, but I have a very strong preference for girls, personally.
     
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    well im bi. and at the current time i belive im about 50/50 when it comes to who i prefer.
     
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    Generally I lean towards girls, and I only say that since I'm kinda picky when it comes to guys. Physically, I don't like guys that are covered in stubble or facial hair, and "manly man" features generally aren't that appealing for me. And of course, most boys are jerks at my age, so it's hard to find guys with a likable personality. I haven't had a real crush on a guy in about a year because of all this.
     
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    Well since it's incredibly hard for me to tell if a guy is flirting with me or not I always assume they want to be friends, and no surprise I've been wrong. So not disgusted at all it just doesn't click I guess.
     
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    I most definitely have a preference for women, although my only LTR was with a guy. I actually have more male friends than female friends because I am one of the guys!

    Most of the men I've met thus far, have wanted more of a romantic relationship with me, but I cannot connect with men (except for one) on that sort of level.

    I am usually up front about my feelings and I always give any new men that come into my life a fair warning.
     
  19. Darren18

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    thats actually fair and a nice gesture to give them a quiet warning about your feelings before anything, in fact part of my question was originary cause i had dated bi girls and they are very cool, and sometimes i like girls that are lesbian, i know is ridiculous but hey i like woman so i dont care if they are lesbian :grin: but ofc i wont be insisting when a person feels different, yet the fully lesbian (not bi) i randomly met somewhere before, they were all like barking before you even say hi xD, like i say hi how are you, and they were already defensive like saying piss off i dont like man, when i wanst even thinking on inviting them or anything, lol but i guess is very relative, which i am enjoying these answers :thumbsup:
     
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    Wow that was mean you only said hi . You see i wouldn't be mean unless you gave me reason to like if you asked and i said i wasn't interested . but that was very mean of them I mean you probably just wanted to be friends or just say hi .