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I have a crush I don't want to have

Discussion in 'Chit Chat' started by metoo, Jan 11, 2014.

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  1. metoo

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    What do you do when you have a crush on your only friend, but you really don't want to have a crush on them?
     
    #1 metoo, Jan 11, 2014
  2. Nikky DoUrden

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    If u find the answer please share with me
     
    #2 Nikky DoUrden, Jan 11, 2014
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    Find crushes on other people. It can be unhealthy to focus on one person.
     
    #3 resu, Jan 11, 2014
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    Dont say anything, i made that mistake yesterday :frowning2:
     
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  5. metoo

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    I really respect my friend and I love her personallity, but I don't want my feelings to develop into a crush because I really don't want to loose my best friend. Her friendship has brought me out of a deep pit of life, and don't want that to be screwed up.
     
    #5 metoo, Jan 17, 2014
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    There's not much you can do, I think.
    Just try to focus on something esle. :slight_smile:

    I hate when I'm crushing on someone - it makes me feel bad for myself and even more lonely. :dry:
     
    #6 Van, Jan 18, 2014
  7. metoo

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    Ok. But sometimes it is hard to focus on someone else when I am always around her.
     
    #7 metoo, Jan 18, 2014
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