Straight guy hit on me again

I know the feeling :/ Guys hit on me all the time but it's like I'm invisible to other bi/gay women. It's very frustrating >_< I hate to stereotype but I think girls are less anxious to hit on people compared to men. Probably because....well I think guys just want sex allot more, so they're bolder. Not saying this is true for all guys though. Also, there's the fact that you're just more likely to meet straight guys than you are to meet gay/bi women. We're a minority unfortunately. But I'm sure when the time is right you'll meet someone lovely

 

Maybe they are just scared to approach, unlike guys which what they "suppose to do"

And also maybe they don't know ur lesbian so why would they approach? its kind of a risk ^^

 

If a guy said that about women on this forum, he'd be skinned and burned alive while being called sexist and misogynistic.:dry:

 

I wouldnt generalize, but i do believe there are more guys open to casual sex than women are, also women are usually more selective with whom they have phisical intimacy....again, not all men and women are the same.

Guys are educated by their father and friends and probably by bigger brothers, on how to approach woman. But also they are expected to do it, in fact not doing it can even affect your self steem, cause you feel like a failure of a man(as a shy awkard guy i have felt that)... So you see, guys are both motivated and expected and educated toward being the initiator, approaching, etc...

On the other hand most women are educated in another way, more toward evaluating those guys who approach her and then rejecting them or accepting them... This decrease the chances of a woman approaching another women, as many lesbians are doing the same you are doing, waiting, and wondering why only guys approach them....

Maybe you could begin taking then initiative yourself. If you dont know how, maybe you can ask a guy for help, specialy a guy with is good at approaching women.... Or even better if you know any lesbian girl who takes the initiative.

I hope this is of help

 

Why not just tell him you're gay? It isn't mean, it's just honest, and makes things simpler for both of you. There is no point him continuing to hit on you, and you don't have to make up half-assed excuses. Some guys can be assholes, but most will just accept it and leave you alone.

 

Haha, I get females flirting and stuff with me plenty(and not knowing the truth) so I get you; although guys seem to pursue this kind of thing more.

For those of us not on the more stereotypical side of our orientations, we will generally get unintentional attention from others outside of it.

^ :\

This, along with what straight ally said about other females out there who may be in your position and waiting as well.

 

Nobody ever flirts with me, but I have been on the other side. I tried to chat up a girl and I got a "ahh, this chick is creeping me out a bit" vibe. Not to mention my uber-creepy high school days.

So to the point, a polite but direct rejection is appropriate.