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I'm trying to meet other women online to date recently i'm a little scared about it but I don't want to be alone anymore and I want to find love so I'll give it a shot .

 

Please don't post the names of chat rooms or dating websites. Thank you!

 

I can't tell you it's against the rules

 

Currently, I don't really meet gay people.
I'm in my second year in highschool, and the only gay people I know is a couple that I don't really have any connection to.
A bit sad, really. Having no gay friends can make you feel lonely at times. There's not exactly a support-group here in Norway anyway, and I wouldn't have the guts to go. Oh well =P
With the right time, and the right place, I will meet someone.

 

I'm too proud to try dating sites. Or rather, I hate photos, so nobody would click on me.

 

I might, once I get access to the chat. I haven't posted enough yet :I

 

Getting closer to doing this for the first time, battling constricting paranoia. Think my visit to Craigslist* this morning didn't do me any favors, though.

*Craigslist isn't out of bounds to mention, is it? If so, apologies in advance.

 

I understand where you're coming from. I have one gay friend and he's so far in the closet he could visit Narnia. I didn't put myself out there tiil i was 40, the older you are the harder it is (at least for me.)

 

To be clear, EC Chat (and EC as a whole) is not the place to be looking to talk to people for the purpose of dating, hooking up, and the like.

 

You bet Just gotta keep the positive side up.

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Fortunately for me, I'm already out. But that doesn't mean I run around screaming it. I do wear a LBGT bracelet (which sadly doesn't get noticed, because it's winter)
I am a moderately shy person, so to speak. I really want a boyfriend, but at the same time, that will for sure make me realise: I'm gay. I'm holding a man's hands. I kiss him, and we're flirting.

I dunno how my future will be. My friends are starting to learn how to drive, getting jobs, and I'm too scared to try that. How do I then get a boyfriend? I think I need to develop some sense of self-importance and pride first

Many people think that getting a boyfriend/girlfriend will solve your problems and loneliness, but it will cause pain equal to love.
I guess I'll just wait and see what happens in the future.. not really relying on getting a boyfriend anytime soon though Trying to stay happy meanwhile..

 

EC is the site of my first 2 same sex relationships, one from simply being active on the forum, which didn't end too well, and the other from the chat itself. That was 4 months ago, and we're still going strong.

 

I've got talking with girls on chats before, but not sure I would meet someone.

 

To add. You can't exchange any contact information with people. If you do you, you can risk getting suspended for 30 days. From what I understand, it's for a matter of your own safety. Don't do it! So to answer your question, nobody uses EC to meet other LGBT people to date. EC Isn't a dating site it's a support site.

 

That's nice that you to are still going strong