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any other lesbians experience this with dating sites?

Discussion in 'Chit Chat' started by stocking, Jan 22, 2014.

  1. stocking

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    They'll tell you it's free you sign up then they ask you to pay for membership and they don't let you talk to other members unless you become a full member by paying for membership . I'm starting to wonder if their all like this and if I'm gonna ever meet anyone and have a relationship part of me is already thinking of giving up . It's like finding a needle in a hay stack
    Have you guys experienced this and how did you over come it ?
    It's getting so bad I even thought of just dating a dude for companionship like there's no sex but at least i will not be alone anymore unhappy yes but not alone .
     
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    there is one good one that doesn't ask for full membership.
     
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    I signed up to the only one I could find I knew was legit and allowed me to look for non-straight people as well. They still want me to pay to see who 'liked' (or whatever their equivalent is) my profile but I refuse to...perhaps that's why I've had no luck...well one of the reasons xD
     
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    Yep, I have had that happen on quite a few actually. I think it's quite mean actually - you look through a profile or two and find someone you like and then you are barred from communicating with them unless you pay a fee! And they block you from the site if you post an e-mail address or anything like that!

    There a few dating sites out there which will give a bit more freedom over how you choose to identify/what and who it is you're looking for which will be FREE, though. It's just a question of knowing where to look.
     
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    Yeah that's the trouble