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Old 9th Jan 2008, 07:09 PM   #61
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Default Re: Do your friends think your gay?

They do think I am. But not full-out gay. Most likely bi, because if you'd seen what my (girl) friends and I do at lunch, I'd doubt you'd think I'm completely gay.

If only I'd known about them wondering if I'm gay, I would have thought about coming out before now.
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Old 9th Jan 2008, 07:40 PM   #62
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i think some of them suspect....cuz one time on the bus we were playing truth or dare (cuz we're such mature teenagers lol) and she asked me i ever thought about guys in a sexual way, and of course i said no, but i felt me face turn red lol , but its all cool, cuz i kinda cover it up with all the wrestling divas half-naked posted on my wall lol..
*sighs* as soon as i come out, i'm gonna add some guys onto my wall lol
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Old 9th Jan 2008, 11:51 PM   #63
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My homophobic friend(who won't admit his phobia) is still one of my best friends and he saw my history a few years ago. lol, anyways someone came up to me one day (let's call them tim) tim said "are you gay?" in the middle of a conversation I said "What?" and got really embarrased, later I found out that he says that to everyone. haha
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Old 10th Jan 2008, 12:48 AM   #64
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All my school friends know I'm gay, but there are still some friends of the family who "suspect" it, but just say nothing.
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Old 10th Jan 2008, 03:27 AM   #65
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It's hard to tell really. I think they may be a tad suspicious, and have made jokes about it before. It's hard to actually know though considering they all call each gay and stuff.

I would say they have an idea, but don't really think on it that much.
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Old 10th Jan 2008, 09:30 AM   #66
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I would guess that they suspect me. I'm not always the most straight acting person, especially when I'm excited. Not THAT way, sicko!
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Old 10th Jan 2008, 03:57 PM   #67
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im in the closet, yet sometimes when the word gay comes up i can hear that slight giggle of awkwardness. idk if they know, but really im bi so unless a really good guy turned up im staying on the socially accepted straight date range.
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Old 10th Jan 2008, 04:02 PM   #68
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My friend, who is bi, when I told her, said that she had thought I might be but thought it rude to ask!

I think my mum might suspect but I don't know for sure that she does. (I hope she does, because that'll make it less of a shock when I come out!!)
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Old 10th Jan 2008, 04:09 PM   #69
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Only my best friend thought I was gay but he was perfectly okay with it he said but I told him that I was'nt. Good thing I did that because we got in a fight not too long ago and he told everyone he thought I was gay but luckily, I didn't say I was. Anyways, Nisomer I think your friend would like be ok if you told them even though this isnt really about that but he seems like hes cool and would accept it pretty easily. Im pretty good at hiding it myself, but my best friend noticed it because he like new every minute of my entire life.
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Old 10th Jan 2008, 04:14 PM   #70
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They know. I don't hide it but they aren't around many gays so when someone who is *snap snap* Fabulous. Comes along... they reconsider just how "gay" they think I am. lol


But I can turn the gay on em when I need... I remind them that because I'm gay I'm aloud to bitch slap a bitch without warning and without consequences... also as their Pimp... I can smack-a-hoe whenever I need... ALSO... The Twins clean my room so I can smack the cleaning ladies for not doing their work right... Juanita and Juanita... (They are twins so I call em the same thing when I pretend they are illegal Mexican cleaning ladies...)
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Old 10th Jan 2008, 04:55 PM   #71
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Haha nothin like brining back an old thread...I love these. It's really fun reading these because it seems like just yesterday when I posted this and had all these feelings and questions, but it was actually like almost 3 years ago!

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Only my best friend thought I was gay but he was perfectly okay with it he said but I told him that I was'nt. Good thing I did that because we got in a fight not too long ago and he told everyone he thought I was gay but luckily, I didn't say I was. Anyways, Nisomer I think your friend would like be ok if you told them even though this isnt really about that but he seems like hes cool and would accept it pretty easily. Im pretty good at hiding it myself, but my best friend noticed it because he like new every minute of my entire life.
And thanks Wired for your concern haha...I came out to him like last year around October/November of 2006 I think, and yeah he was totally okay with it...one of the more supportive friends I'd say.
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Old 10th Jan 2008, 04:57 PM   #72
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Sadly none of my friends think I'm gay, or at least they won't say they did. I keep asking them them if they ever suspected but they always say no. I must be terrible at being gay then. =P
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Old 10th Jan 2008, 04:59 PM   #73
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They set me up with him...
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Old 10th Jan 2008, 06:20 PM   #74
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I'm completely out and almost everyone knows that I'm gay, but if I never told them, they'd probably never guess.
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Old 10th Jan 2008, 06:28 PM   #75
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One of my friends definitely thinks I am considering she used to ask me if I was so often >.<
But other than her I don't think anyone else does...
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Old 10th Jan 2008, 08:32 PM   #76
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hmm...I dont think so, but i'm not sure. One of my friends did start calling me "princess" last year but I think it was more of a joke then her actually knowing.
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