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How do u feel when ur boyfriend or girlfriend wear skimpy bathing suits?

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  1. Rosepetal

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    My bf and i were talking nd he thinks women nd males should show their goods off to their current significant other,instead of everyone else. I think bathing suits are sexy but he doesnt think so. Whats your opinion?
     
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    I like bikinis on my women. I also like a one piece. Either way, it's close enough to naked that it doesn't matter much. I mean, they're all spandex-y style tight....
     
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    I've love it , but I would get jealous because other people were staring at her but then I would remember she choose me so I don't have to worry . Plus they can look but i'm the one that can touch(!)
     
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    I love skimpy clothing. Hey, if you've got it, flaunt it. It doesn't mean the others get to touch. :stuck_out_tongue_closed_eyes:
     
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    I REALLY wish my bf felt the same way as u guys :slight_smile:
     
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    Haven't had an SO yet, but if I did i would be okay with it so long as other people didn't give him/her too much attention.

    Basically as long as no one is staring and it isn't awkward, I'm fine.

    I hope that makes sense.
     
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    it does make sense :slight_smile:
     
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    I totally dig it~ :grin:

    He has an amazing body and I'd show it off if I was him too
     
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    thats how i feel about my bf :slight_smile:
     
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    I think people should wear what they want, not what their significant other tells them to. My (hypothetical) partner doesn't have the right to tell me what to wear.
     
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    Same here - school swimming lessons are interesting
     
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    I agree! No one should control the person they are with.
     
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    Im so single I don't know
     
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    I don't think anyone should TELL anyone what to wear maybe communicate your feeling on the matter and discuss it.

    For me I have no problems with a bikini on her(actually I love it), me on the other hand...no. I'm far to insecure for that.
     
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    I don't think there's anything wrong with it, but personally I'd be protective if my boyfriend would wear something skimpy. I guess I'm always worried someone is going to be too aggressive toward him. :redface: I wouldn't want anyone to make them uncomfortable because they enjoy wearing what they want.

    Not that I have a bf. :lol:
     
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    My BF/GF in a sexy outfit? Giggity! :grin::grin::grin::grin:
     
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    Speaking theoretically at this point... I probably wouldn't be a big fan of something that looked more like part of a stripper's routine than actual swimwear, at some public place anyway (backyard hot tub for two, that might be different hehe).

    Beyond that, I agree with "whatever he likes and looks good on him". As far as other people looking/oggling, I personally would find it more upsetting if he carried on in a flirtacious/slutticious manner with everyone, than what he was actually wearing.
     
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    The tide wouldn't be the only thing rising, let me just say...
     
  19. Rosepetal

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    that i agree with u on this matter

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    I agree but u wouldnt like it when ppl are flirting with ur gf would u?
     
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    Girls in bikinis are hot, boys in speedos are gross. guys in board shorts though...