Making Love

You know, I don't like it when people call it that, especially because, a lot of times when people do call it that, they're just fucking someone they don't love. It's a euphemism, which I don't particularly care for to begin with.

However, what it should mean is being truly intimate with someone, to not only be united physically and sexually, but also emotionally and spiritually.




(Don't tell anyone I'm mushy and sensitive like this. Keep my secret!)

 

Hugging, kissing, touching, making eye contact and feeling very close.

 

Honestly, i don't think ive ever had sex with someone i didn't feel closeness to.

to me, sex is making love. Making love with someone is completely opening up to them, completely becoming one with the person. Even if the sex is rough or kinky, thats giving a huge part of yourself to the other person. While bodies feel the pleasure i feel the souls are actually whats mixing.

 

When you are with that person physically making a mental and emotional connection
I mean I have have sex and even fuck my wife and I can also make love to her. Sometimes its not about getting off, but using that experience to bond.
Its the physical representation of everything you feel for you partner. Using your body to say "I love you" without words.
Thats making love.

 

I see it as bonding but like with your body and showing your love for that person with your body . same as what DarkRayne said

 

For me it's the intimate, deep, spiritual connection with him. It's not getting my rocks off, it's about completely giving myself to him while he's doing the same for me. It's amazing and beautiful, and that's the only way I can describe it.

 

i agree with justjade. oh & by the way i know your se...cret. to me you can't make love unless there is already love there.

 

I don't call it making love. Love is there all the time. If it isn't, then sex does not create it. I know some people use "love" and "sex" interchangeably depending on how graphic they want to be, but I still call it something else.

 

This is what I think of sex

Do a little dance make a little love.

No but I think sex starts out with hugging then kidding then French kissing then having sex and putting 2 sweaty bodies together so sexy so sexy mmm mmm so sexy.

 

I never liked this euphemism.
The phrase "making love" made me wonder if there was some sort of recipe one could use to craft love.
Personally, I'd use "getting laid" as my wording of choice.

 

For me it's like what Cass and DrkRayne said.

 

I'm not at all fond of the term "making love". It has too many bad connotations for me. I feel like the term "making love" is just a glamorous-sounding term for having sex...Maybe it's just because I have had a bad experience with it

 

Cuddling
Snuggling
Kissing
Looking deep into their eyes and them mine
Holding their face affectionately
Letting them see me
Seeing what thrills and excites them
Sex with a ton of holding each other throughout the entire night

 

There is a massive difference between sex and making love. Sex is just the mechanics, the physical aspect of making love. However, making love is the mechanics with LOVE, THAT LITTLE FLAME IN YOUR HEART CALLED PASSION, ROMANCE... Ooooooh making love is something different than sex. But the ironic part of this is I have yet to make love... :/

 

Yea I know the feeling