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Speeeeeeed dating tonight!

Discussion in 'Chit Chat' started by Blondeye, Feb 4, 2014.

  1. Blondeye

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    Do you have any funny things that can be said when on a first date?...

    I am going to go speed dating for the first time tonight. I would love to have a list of things to say when there is a big silence. Any ideas? :help:
     
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    Pardon my ignorance, but what is speed dating?
     
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    I think that it's is going to meet people. dating people in your age range and you sit down with them for five minutes and then they push the buzzer and get up and go to the next woman... Does that help!
     
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    wow. That sounds like a game at a scout camp :slight_smile: Good luck :slight_smile:
     
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    OMG I'm jealous. I've always wanted to try speed dating back when I was single, but I never could. Now I'm not single anymore.
    JEALOUS!!!!!!!!!
    Um, I have no advice though. Sorry. I suck at dating.
     
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    Good luck!
     
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    "Did you ever fall out of bed?" (depending on how brave you're feeling or if you get good-natured vibes from the other person, you can add 'while having sex?' as another joke)
    You can talk lightheartedly about how frizzy your hair gets during the winter, or compliment their clothes. "Would you rather" questions are also quick ways to have fun and get to know someone without taking too much time. "Would you rather go cave diving or mountain climbing", "Would you rather eat at a restaurant or a cafe"... etc.
     
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    never been but heard about it. some don'ts are don't talk about your ex,having kids,or anything bad about anybody there. don't ask them about their ex,job or about what they drive. just of the tips i've heard. good luck!
     
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    Mysz... Good point!!!

    ---------- Post added 9th Feb 2014 at 08:19 PM ----------

    I didn't make it in, so I am trying again Tuesday evening!!!
     
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    Crossing my fingers it works out the second time. Have fun! I don't have advice or suggestions though, sorry! I also suck at dating, and I'm not much of a talker :icon_redf
     
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    Hi you look really beautiful to night my name is let seem um Cherry , It's so nice to meet you and what's your name ?
    cassy
    what do you like doing for fun cassy ?

    Maybe this God I feel so lame :confused:
     
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    Ask funny things and/or things that may help to continue with a conversation:

    If you could be anyone famous, who would you be? Wich songs would you say that could be the soundtrack of your life? If you could take a look at any moment in time, past or future, which moment would you choose? If you could travel anywhere in the world where would that be? Favourite movie and why? Where would you take someone for a first date? Which food would you like to try and which one would you never try? Dream job? If you could marry anyone. Who would that be? If you could met anyone in history who would that be and why?topics to talk about.

    Not everything in the same conversation, but that should give you some room to keep talking
     
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    from what iv'e been told you need to be quite fast you only get about 5 mins per person .
     
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    Good luck. Do you pick a favourite at the end?
     
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    So I ended up canceling
    Cuz The girl who IM dating canceled her trip to meet a girl in California.