I jokingly called one of my mom's friends her "gay best friend". My sister accused me of being homophobic. She said that I shouldn't define people by their sexuality. I was only joking. I wasn't actually defining him by his sexuality. She is straight so she barely knows anything about homophobia anyways.
Yes, but she just doesn't like to acknowledge it. It's still a very awkward subject even though she's known for three years.