Guys question

I'd have to say I'm striving to be more feminine and would prefer masculine. Though I can't say I'm in any way opposed to feminine

 

For me I care more about connection than physical attributes though. I'd rather have someone who I can hold a conversation with than someone who's attractive on a god-like level xD

 

Sounds dreamy <3

I think attractive, sweet, intelligent, and when it comes to bedroom stuff not afraid to take charge :3

 

I know, right?

 

Hopefully anyways

 

I'm slightly feminine and have no problems dating either masculine or feminine guys. Why limit yourself based on such superficial traits? If I'm attracted to someone, I'll pursue it, who cares about things like that as long as I like them?

I must admit though because I am kind of feminine, I tend to get shunned a lot by other gay men when looking for a relationship. It hurts because none of them take the time to get to know me, preferring to judge me on banalities.

 

I agree that judgement sucks, but at the same time people are allowed to have certain things that attract them.

Sex is a part of a relationship just as much as everything else. If you're with someone who you aren't really all that attracted to it'll eventually lead to problems down the road. I think it's best to find your balance. Don't get too caught up in a single trait of a person, but rather find a nice blend where you feel comfortable and happy with who you're with ^.^

 

Masculine, and I prefer masculine personalities.
Physically? I am a man with a wide range of interests...

 

I don't believe I ever said anything to the contrary.

 

I'm a DTE guy and I prefer to date DTE guys

 

Well people always tell me the the would havve never guessed I am gya so I guess that I am the "guy next door type".

I don't mind if the other person in feminine or not, some time ago I would have said that I wouldn't date a feminine guy but I have met some awesome guys who were a bit feminine so I don't think like that anymore (and I think I was just being too shortsighted)

 

While I don't consider myself hypermasculine, I do have traits/tendencies/hobbies that are considered by society as inherently masculine; I also have traits that are considered "feminine." I am compassionate and caring; I am the guy that changes the channel when the World Vision commercials come out so that I don't have to look at the sad kids' faces. But I am also one of the most protective person you've ever met. My mom feels more comfortable having my sister go out with me than with my dad because she knows I always keep her walking in front of me, I guide her to the opposite side when suspect characters pass by and do all the things you do to keep a person out of harm's way; I am protective to a fault.

In a relationship, I wouldn't mind being the more "masculine" protector in the relationship but I also wouldn't mind being the protectee of a more masculine guy. I'm open to all kinds of guys, though I have a slight bias towards somewhat masculine guys.

 

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Well you do not really have to choose. You can be generally indendant but share wiith your S.O. a levele of intimacy and vulnerability you don't usually show

A friend of mine posted this article on FB and I think it is an interested read and may be relevant for this post:

Attitude Magazine Darren Hayes: 'Having a "type" is keeping you single' » Attitude Magazine

 

I must have misunderstood what you meant then

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Interesting read. I'll have to keep it in mind

 

I feel kinda that way as well. In my previous relationship the guy sortof dominated me and I never felt comfortable with that. Not that I want to dominate anybody. It is just, dont try to sit on my head. be my friend rather.