Being lesbian is a T R E N D

Oh wow, that's awful!! I can definitely understand your frustration. How inconsiderate, and just plain rude!! I'm sorry you're dealing with so many ignorant copy-cats--they should really respect you AND your orientation a lot more! Especially the part about "being bi and lesbian is basically the same thing! ":dry: No. No, it's not. Why would you even say that? Uggghh, people can be infuriating, and it made me angry reading about it!

I hope things get better and they wise-up soon!

 

This has to be some weird movie plot. Well... That is weird.
I can see how it would drive you crazy. I thought this was going to be a rant or something about people accusing it of being a trend, not literally people saying/doing that. Just.. I don't.. wow. Weird.
I was thinking there might should be a rant thread here not too long ago, a forum I used to be on had one. I guess the thinking thread is sort of close.
I don't know what to say that would be helpful. That is weird as fuck.
Also, I'm bi and last time I checked I am not at the same time gay. (*hug*)
I guess high school is just weird.

 

Wow we're in trouble those girls like that ruin the bisexual orientation now their gonna do the same thing to us . :tears:

 

Okay, so like I don't even know how to react to that. I mean, major props for starting a fashion trend, but in regards to wanting to be lesbian is rather.. insane (in the membrane). It's like these people are oblivious to what we've gone through prior to coming out.

BUT HEY THERE'S SOMETHING I CAN RELATE TO:
My girlfriend's bisexual, also predominantly into guys. Lately, she's also been calling herself a lesbian and I'm pretty proud of her considering how far she's come. I mean at this point I have no idea where she stands in her sexuality now, because she's been bathing people (she's training to become a CNA, so it's all for good reason, haha) and also find dicks to make her nauseous.

But of all the bisexuals and lesbians at my school, there's like 3 (including me). One's extremely butch, while my girlfriend's extremely girly, and I'm smack dab in the middle. I mean there's definitely a difference between being lesbian and bisexual verses an individual's choices when it comes to gender expression; combining the two into the Lesbian Trend is actually upsetting for me too.

Much love and hopefully things start to simmer down.

 

Ooh! I'm trendy now!

People seriously think this is a thing? Kyle and Stan were right, at least a quarter of people are stupid.

 

Great now the straight guys that are douche bags are gonna be harassing us more :tantrum:

I'm just gonna do what I do best just be myself and tell any guy off that harasses me and my girlfriend .:dry:

 

Ooooh shit, give me a location and there will be a guaranteed 30 KOs/comas/deaths tomorrrow

exhibit A on why I hated straight people for a while

 

Oh, is wearing flannel gay?

 

Hm. When I came out the only change that occurred for me was a growth of female attention - in that they mistakenly assumed I would be their "experiment" willingly.

And Renge it's a stereotype but I can't deny it's truth for me being that despite my predominantly black wardrobe there is flannel to be found lol

And I'm definitely not bi but "bi" means "two" therefore not "one" I'M PRETTY DAMN SURE

 

Yes, i think the same trend happens to gay not only lesbian! However, when it comes to love, I am all for choosing the one I have real feelings towards

 

Do not be too upset over "the trend". It's a pity..they are emotionally short circuiting. high libido now, frigid l8r It's a secret society thing for them...like freemasons or something

 

Dont worry,here what is going to happen:

1- people are in a trend, so many prople wont take you seriously, specialy homophobrs
2- many will tell you: "you are just following a trend, look how all these 'lesbians' are with boyfriend after a few months, you can stop"
3- "the trend ended long ago, why do you keep doing this?" " you havent found the right guy"
4- why are you still with that trend, it alre... "Oh! You are married to a woman!, so it was for real!" And you will be there with your best 'are yo fucking kidding me!/ You dont fucking say!" Face.
5- you will be known as an unquestionable lesbian and most people will leave you alone/take you seriously, except for the usual stupid everyone finds from time to time.

 

i'm really sorry. i literally cringed the whole way through your post. that must suck. but they'll hopefully get over it soon. I don't really know what advice to give you, so for that i'm also sorry.

 

Well our society has a scewed male view of female sexuality/gender.

Lesbians either hate men or can't get them.
Bisexual women are secretly straight.
Trans*women have "penis envy."

A lot of people take on that male view without realising it and that whole idea that women's lives somehow revolve around men has yet to dissipate.

And it sucks that you have to deal with these girls because they'll stop eventually...and further contribute to the beliefs above.

This is why we can't have nice things.

 

Some straight men even had the attude that women belong to them . I answered a question yesterday on another site about girls kissing girls and a guy commented and said how are you suppose to know about this your a girl ? :bang:

 

Well not that it makes up for what's happening to you from these girls, don't forget there is the "metrosexual" trend out there for gay men as well.

 

oh, the rant was awesome!! I couldn't stop reading even though I am not a lesbian. Oh, wait a moment... maybe I could be? :eusa_danc :icon_wink

(*hug*)

 

Oh... that must suck.
But don't worry, it's a trend, and trends usually fade away quickly. Before you notice, those girls will be into some other thing.
Ignore them and focus on the good things of your life.
Also, I loved your rant Maybe this page should have a rant room, after all.

 

I'm so sorry you have to go through this. It really sucks. Sorry, I don't have any advice. Just giving some support (*hug*)

(It's actually a compliment to you, because people look up to you to show them the way, even though they see it as a trend only)