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How to know if she's lesbian

Discussion in 'Chit Chat' started by KThomps, Feb 8, 2014.

  1. KThomps

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    I really like this girl and I have for a long time. We have started a friendship and she always seems like she is flirting with me by the fact that she touches me needlessly and she sends me pics of her in like her underwear and stuff. The issue is that she has never had a reputation of liking girls and if she does how can I know if she likes them or me? Any advice?:help:
     
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    Sending you pics of herself in her underwear well I think that's a big sign she likes girls or likes you .
    If this happened to me I would text her back saying you bi or lesbian ? or how about i take you out for a date on Friday since you've been sending me all these pictures .
     
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    So the underwear is that like a for sure sign she likes me?
     
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    I would think so unless she was doing it as a prank which I don't think she is I would say on the safe side make a flirty joke to be safe .
     
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    What kind of flirty joke?
     
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    like the one I did on top like try this one
    Are these pictures a sign that you want me to take you on a date ?
     
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    Okay thanks I thought I was just really friendzoned
     
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    You could text her saying "You sound like you're flirting lol"
    "Lol"'s and "haha" 's are important since they can help you back out of the situation if she reacts negatively.
     
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    Thanks myself I kind of like that one better because it requires less courage to straight up ask

    ---------- Post added 9th Feb 2014 at 12:41 AM ----------

    Oops autocorrect i meant thanks mysz
     
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    It doesn't necessarily mean a girl likes you when she sends you such photos like that! However, the chances of that happening are higher than usual, i think u should make the first move, create more situation that her feelings an be expressed more obviously! thay may help :slight_smile:
     
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    Thanks!

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    Should I add that she doesn't know I'm lesbian??
     
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    she may be just trying to get you in a pic trade....b careful. Invite her over and leave underwear lying where she can see them
     
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    That's a good idea thanks
     
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    i have friends that trade pics of themselves in their underwear...i think its just thing some teenage girls do. Not saying she dosent like you! she still might! its just be careful in taking that as a sign that she likes you :slight_smile:
     
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    Just talk to her Love :slight_smile: it may be a little awkward but it will help a lot :slight_smile: