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Intimidated by butch lesbians

Discussion in 'Chit Chat' started by ChromeNerd, Feb 9, 2014.

  1. ChromeNerd

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    I always feel uncomfortable around butch lesbians or women who look like butch lesbians. I don't feel too uncomfortable around gay men.
     
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    Aw, why? I'm not scary (though I'd be more androgynous I suppose).
     
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    I use to be because I thought they can always tell I'm a lesbian they gave me this look and yeah it use to scare me .
     
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    Im not too scary :tantrum: ..i hope....


    Why are you intimidated by them/us? (*hug*)
     
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    I'm kind of afraid of being "found out" even though I'm not super closeted.
     
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    that's the same thing I was scared of because they gave you the I know your gay look .
     
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    I know the look. Sometimes I think it's just my imagination. I don't mind getting that look from attractive non-butch girls. :icon_wink
     
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    I feel very comfortable around butch lesbians, they make me feel safe and are great to talk with, I remember my first mardi gras parade, my sister and I tagged along with a group of them and we had the time of our lives!
     
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    I feel uncomfortable around butch girls because they turn my insides to mush. They make me glad that girls can't get boners.
     
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    In all technicality women can ;D
     
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    Yes... They make me hot inside... Lol... Turn me on... :slight_smile:
    I can be read easily, so I blush easily with butches... I do not mind though.. :slight_smile:
     
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    Me too

    ---------- Post added 9th Feb 2014 at 11:55 AM ----------

    We can ?
     
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    Then why do we intimidate you when we do it? We are family, that's all we want to signal. XD

    ---------- Post added 9th Feb 2014 at 10:51 PM ----------

    Some trans* women can. :wink:
     
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    wow that's so cool :icon_bigg
     
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    (Also the clitoris can become erect but yes trans*ladies are also included lol)

    I would never out someone dears. My gay-dar isn't entirely operational. I'm pretty oblivious most of time. But I admit to trying to make literally every girl I meet blush.
     
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    Aww maybe I shouldn't have prejudged back then , and maybe the girl was trying to make me blush too .
    so both cis women and trans get erect wow I didn't know that maybe that explains the strange feels we feel when we're horny .
     
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    Huh, I guess I can be at times, even as a gay male. But then again, any display of overly 'butch' or 'macho' or exaggeratedly masculine traits make me kinda scared, with men or women.
     
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    Me too.

    I am androgyne, and I am not be able to stay around butch lesbians.

    p.s. androgyne people and butch lesbians are in competition, even if the first ones pick up girls more :grin:
     
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    I like the butch lesbians I know. :slight_smile: So friendly

    Although, they make me feel not lesbian enough :confused: I see them and go...dang it, why can't I look cool like that!!!!