You can find lots of them in Coming Out Stories - Empty Closets - A safe online community for gay, lesbian, bisexual, transgender people coming out. I'm not really out yet but last time I tried telling someone, they didn't receive it too well. In fact, they believed it to be a phase that would pass sometime in the future, and simply dismissed it.
Tons of videos on YouTube, although for reasons I have no explanation for, most of them seem to be done by guys, not girls.