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Are other lesbians willing to meet another girl in another state ?

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  1. stocking

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    Are lesbians willing to meet girls that live far away from them ?
    The reason I'm worried is I got screwed in a long distance relationship before she told me she was gonna meet me then she broke up with me and it pretty much ended , so I'm scared to try again . the trouble is I don't have a car so I cant' drive to far to meet other women and I don't know if they will be willing to come meet me . I want to try girls in my state and out of my state because I don't want to limit myself . I'm on the fence on this one :confused::help:
     
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    If I had a strong enough connection with a girl I would definetly go to meet her. If you do find a girl and end up planning on meeting just explain to her the circumstances, worst case scenario there's always rental cars.
     
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    I'm embarrassed to say this but I can't drive yet >.< I'm planning to learn this summer .
     
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    Oh well that's understandable. I wouldn't be embarrassed about it, my friend Jennifer doesn't have her license/ permit yet either. As far as that there may be classes you can take to help you learn, and it makes your insurance cheaper. As far as meeting up with someone I wouldn't worry too much about it, just make sure you really get to know them first. I'm hoping to meet up with this girl I've been talking to for over 8 years this summer so I can understand where you are coming from.
     
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    I hope you guys get to meet 8 years wow that's a long time . not to sound mean but I hope mine is shorter lol I've kinda spent most of my adult life alone .
     
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    No I completely understand. If I was going to meet someone online and possibly pursue a relationship with them I wouldn't want to wait that long. To be honest that was never the plan when we started talking, you know. Yeah I know what you mean, I haven't really dated people much either, I know I'm only 20 but eventually I would like together married and have a family consisting of more than just my pets lol.
     
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    I don't have any pets but I want a girlfriend to share the pets , I don't know if I want a family or not yet though .
     
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    To me pets make a house a home. But that's my opinion. I think that would be great to have a girlfriend and get your own place eventually with at least one pet of your own. I can't wait to have a family I just imagine this perfect wife and perfect kids, etc but not everything goes as planned unfortunately.
     
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    Me too but i don't know if I want kids or not .
     
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    Well that's alright you have plenty of time to figure that out. I've always been a motherly person, if that makes sense, so it's something that I've always wanted. I overthink things way too much, if you can't tell. But hey I have to have something to do.
     
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    If I felt like I could really be with that person, I would totally be committed no matter where they lived. My friend Joan meet her GF over the internet and their moms drove them to meet eachother in person. By the way, not being able to drive isn't something to be ashAmed over. I got you
     
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    that's a good way to be . I like to plan out things before I do them or when i'm just starting out .
     
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    Yeah I one of those people who love to plan ahead. I even plan conversations out with people, it doesn't help when they don't go exactly how they do in my head though. Kind of weird I guess. :-/
     
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    i think it's better to plan out than have nothing planned . I know it will take me a while to buy a car but I really hope whoever I date has one or I'll rent one once I learn to drive .

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    Thanks tulips ^^
     
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    Most people do have cars. If you plan to buy one I would try something like craigslist or used cars, that's what my family does so there's not a huge payment you have to make. I know some rental cars are really expensive, my mom used to work for a rental car company and some of their prices were crazy.
     
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    The girl I'm dating also lives in Maryland. She is flying all the way to California she's okay to meet a girl

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    I would not
     
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    I live in Texas, The size of 8 New England states. I suppose borders may have a psyche effect on distance.