Is every woman bisexual or something?

I believe now-a-days women are more open and accepting with there sexuality, or with exploring there sexuality! Women were very sensual creatures who understand each other and naturally connect (sometimes)so - yea - Im not surprised more women have been romantically evolved with other women and its probably not always on a sexual level I believe it might be more on a mental/emotional connection- some women have for each other. I don't believe all these women are gay or bi but can become romantically attracted to each other and decide to date or attempt having a relationship with other women. Sure.

 

Hmm. I wish that worked the other way!

If I could find it anywhere in the depths of my soul to be attracted to a male, I'd jump in joyous relief that I'd been freed from this gay burden.

Not everyone is fluid, no.

 

The word you're looking for is "bicurious". The reality is, nearly everyone is bicurious to some degree. All it takes is for the stigma to be gone, and people start showing that side of themselves

When my mom was a teen, NONE of her friends kissed for "fun". And now it's hard to find a girl who HASN'T kissed another girl before. That's the because the stigma of girl-on-girl action is pretty much gone. It's gonna happen with guys eventually, and it's already starting to happen in really gay-friendly countries. Like the one I live in

 

I think those actress only come out as bisexual to look cool with the younger generation some I think really are like lady gaga because she does help the lgbt community the others that say their bisexual don't they just say they are and that's it .

I've heard that some straight girls even say they are bisexual also to be popular with guys and for men's attention yes some are bi curious but I think some girls aren't really bisexual or bi curious and only do it because they think it's cool which is unfortunate for the real bisexual girls out there . Also some girls are doing it because others are so it's what I call copycat syndrome also some girls experiment with other girls because it's taboo to sleep with another girl .
If all women were bisexual then I would like penis and there would be no such thing a lesbian

 

I think patriarchal society is to blame.

 

Me too

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It's a poplular thing now , and if you say your bi you'll get a guy with out doing much work .

btw I'm not talking about real bisexuals but there are some straight girls that use it as a way to get men and they are the ones who started this bisexual = slut myth .

 

Bisexuals face discrimination from both the gay and straight communities. While acceptance for gays has skyrocketed recently, support for bisexuals has lagged behind. We are just not as visible as gays for a number of reasons. People will assume that we're either gay or straight depending on the sex of our current partner, resulting in what we call bisexual erasure. This lack of visibility has kept many of us in the closet. I've read only 12% of bi males and maybe a third of bi females are out, as opposed to about three quarters of gays and lesbians. So much is made of the high suicide rate among gays. Many don't realize that the rate is HIGHER for bisexuals.

Women aren't more 'fluid' than men, it's just that there's slightly less of a stigma with them vs. men.

 

Agreed.

Oh, and bi the way...
What's with all this "patriarchy" this and "patriarchy" that?
America (for example) is very egalitarian compared to places like India.
Besides, gay and bi women are actually benefiting from the visibility!
Sure, it's not perfect (lesbians tend to be taken less seriously by straights), but gay girls tend to have a positive reputation...

 

I don't necessarily think we benefit from the visibility (It does depend though). I do believe that lesbians are only accepted because of the patriarchy (although I'm not saying It's as bad as the middle east).
But rather that girl-girl action or relationships aren't seen as horrible or threatening because it doesn't involve a man so It's seen as an inferior relationship or experience. It's "okay" because straight men are attracted to it and aren't threatened by it. A lot of women experimenting don't see what they do as "real" or a huge deal, and that when they go on and sleep with/date/marry a man it'll be a bigger deal or the "real" thing compared to their female experiences (Even if the man was a casual fling!).

This is why I don't believe gay men are as "accepted" because they can have penetrative sex which is seen as higher, a bigger deal, and a dominant/submissive act. It's a huge deal to a lot of people to find out their boyfriend likes guys, but if a guy's girlfriend is sleeping with other girls, It's not "threatening", It's not "cheating", It's "not real sex".

That's not real acceptance in my eyes.

On to the topic, I think more women are just more likely to experiment than men are because there's less fear to do so and It's seen as 'cool' to like/sleep with girls cause the guys find it hot. I don't even believe every women is bisexual, but a lot are more willing to explore bi-tendencies.

 

I've read all over the place that almost everyone goes through a bi-curious phase and question their sexuality, even if they don't do anything sexual with someone of the same gender. It's possible to be bi-curious for your entire life (one of my closest friends is like this). I do think that some girls either exaggerate or lie about their attraction to other girls, just because it's thought of as sexy and hot by today's society. It also makes some girls think higher of themselves, like, "Oh, I'm so daring. Once, I even made out with another girl."

In the end, it's just a really weird stigma that is pretty sickening.

But I do understand how you feel... I didn't want to come out at first because SOOO many girls at my school were coming out as either bisexuals or lesbians, and I didn't want to be lumped into that crowd and have everyone think I was only doing it for attention. :S

 

We are responders. We respond to aggressors whom line up with our norms or standards. The big equality in life is in bed. There, whether dom or sub, u exchange rolls dependent on the passion. We just seem to adjust to this concept in a way that we can simply respond....male or female. Men have a few more barriers to break through as predominantly aggressors. Though with the right woman they can become a responder at times in bed. Just my opinion....easily convinced otherwise.

 

This is ironic of my orientation to say, but I think most of this is wishful thinking tbh, but I'm not a woman so it's not my place to say really.

 

I'm a woman and agree with you
They think it's so daring to do this and boast about it but the one time I noticed that some girls or women thought it was daring because Melissa Joan heart said she made out with a girl in her book right and I remember the people interviewing her was like yeah and ? and they passed over the topic and asked her about other stuff that was more interesting but I found it so funny she thought they would be all amazed by it but they were like meh , you could even see the look on her face like that's not cool anymore ?lol.
I heard from a straight guy too that one of his female friends tried eating a girl out because she thought it would be cool and in the end did not like the experience .
I think when being gay or lesbian or even bisexual and trans become accepted and it's no longer a big shocker thing these girls ( straight girls ) will no longer be trying it out just for fun .

 

Who was the actress?

 

Melissa Joan Hart famous for the show Sabrina the teen age witch and Clarissa

Melissa Joan Hart - Wikipedia, the free encyclopedia
spelled her name wrong sorry about that guys

Her sister is really hot she use to make appearances on the show Sabrina

 

Hello!
I'm a straight girl and I don't know many gay people but I'm just curious about them. I hope you don't mind my presence here.
No, not all women are bisexual. I am most definitely not bisexual and the thought of being with a woman is, well, disgusting and can turn me off completely. I like watching porn sometimes but I just hate if there is some girl on girl action, it kills everything for me and I hate it if there is more than one girl in the video. And I have a high sex drive although I don't act on it. I don't mean to offend you, just to give you my experience.
However, I think women are beautiful and I like looking at women but I also like looking at children and cats and I feel sexual attraction. I just appreciate beauty. Also, just looking at guys is not enough to turn me on and make me think about sex, I'm not visually driven. Are you lesbians as visual as straight men? For me, to feel sexual attraction I need actions from a man, I need to feel his dominance and masculinity, I also get turned on by a man's voice.
I'm sorry if you don't want these details. I have been recently curious about how different people experience sexual attraction and I'm just giving my two cents about my own sexuality. I hope it's appropriate

 

As a lesbian I don't find this offensive at all. Even I hate seeing girl-girl action in porn a lot of the time since a lot of it feels straight male dominated and the girls look fake and unattractive anyway.

Also, no, I am not as visual as straight men. In order for me to be really sexually attracted to a girl I need to have some emotional connection, for her to make me feel safe. I don't think about sex with girls unless we're close enough for me to trust them. I have a voice fetish too.

 

I'm not offended by this question either , Even though I'm lesbian i can get turned on visually sometimes by porn but not all the time I watch girl on girl porn but I don't like it that much if it's romantic or a real couple then yes I get turned on . I prefer guy on guy more or solo girl . For me sometimes I'm sexually attracted to some girls from meeting them or just seeing them but most of the time I need an emotional connection and trust to take that step with them . If that makes sense . But I do have the Omg she's so hott when i meet a pretty girl that I like and after getting to know her I can picture us having sex . Really hope this makes sense .