Do lesbians like girls that look like them (and other questions)

I don't have preference for women that look like me , I just like girls that are hot
I find women's genitalia aesthetically appealing. With me I don't feel anything for penises it's like seeing a cup on the table I see but I don't wanna bang it .

 

I think my shape is good, but other than that, I don't want a girl to look like me.
I don't really find any genitalia aesthetically pleasing.

 

"I find straight porn fake." - It is.

"It is very difficult to find something I like. I couldn't care less about big tits or blondes or whatever is advertised for straight men." As a straight woman, why would you?

"I generally don't care how the girl looks but I prefer to watch girls that look like me . It helps me imagine I am there. Do you lesbians also have a preference for women that look like you?" - Personally, I don't, at least, not in the sense that I would seek out like, a doppelganger or something! Having said that, there is a certain appeal to seeing girls with a similar body type because it puts in mind this idea that if they can get some and make someone enjoy it so can you...

"I also don't find women's genitalia aesthetically appealing. What do girls who are into girls think?" - Meh. It's not something I'd hang on the wall! I don't know...it's appealing so far as it's going to make someone feel good, but not exactly aesthetically wonderful...

"I'm also curious about what lesbians think of casual sex. Do lesbians feel the same kind of emotional bonding after sex like straight women usually do?" - Do straight people 'feel the same kind of emotional bonding after sex like' YOU do? That's going to depend on each person.

"I somehow think that women are less likely to objectify someone sexually (although I've kind of done it myself) and find it more difficult to separate sex from love. So are lesbian relationships easier in that regard?" - You know you've objectified people sexually, so why wouldn't other women?

 

Sorry I couldn't answer about lesbian and causal sex yet I hadn't have sex with another woman yet .

 

One of my friends is gay and her dad said you don't really want to date those girls you just want to be just like them so I think you're right... Yes.

 

I find straight porn fake...
Same, its just too unrealistic, but what porn is? Porn is suppose to be fake, if it was to reflect the average joe on the street, well lets just say internet porn wouldn't be such a big thing.

Do you lesbians also have a preference for women that look like you?
I don't have a preference towards women who look like me specifically. I'm rather petite, small and compact. So I'm really attracted to curvy women. I have olive tanned skin with brown eyes and black hair. So I find red heads with pale snow white skin very attractive...but its not always the complete opposite.

... I also don't find women's genitalia aesthetically appealing. What do girls who are into girls think?
I guess genitalia isn't very appealing to the eyes, but the association of genitalia with sex etc makes them very appealing.

I'm also curious about what lesbians think of casual sex...
Not like I have a wealth of experience, but I think this is an individual thing instead of a sexual orientation thing. I personally find it pretty easy to keep love and sex separate, but if I'm already emotionally invested before sleeping with the person then yeah. Oh boy do I get attached afterwards.

 

I'm bisexual, not a lesbian, but I have a very strong reference for women so I figured I'd contribute.

I don't have any preference for girls that look like me. Actually, I think I generally like girls who look quite different from me.
I don't really find male or female genitalia attractive. I find male genitalia almost a turn off unless I'm already really turned on, and female genitalia I'm somewhat neutral to. however, when I see it in porn and they are 100% shaved and the camera is just all over it...it looks a bit gross, to be honest, if you ask me. (I do find all other physical aspects of women extremely attractive, though.)

I can't comment on the sex part, as I haven't had sex with a male or women yet.

 

Not exactly. They don't have to look like me. In fact, it would be weird if she was a copy of me heh. There are certain things in women that I find attractive and things that I don't find attractive.

And just like with straight people there are all kinds of lesbians out there. Some seek relationship and commitment, some aren't looking for anything serious.

 

Some do... but not always. Frankly, some lesbians are attracted to girls that look the exact opposite of them. Personally, I like girls who are about as feminine as me and around my height but other than that, the girl doesn't have to look anything like me. It just depends on the lesbian.

 

Ok I came back to explain my answer about if I like girls that look like me I thought you meant chicks that look like a double of me or act like me . when I saw the other girls answer now I understand .
I like girls that are femme like me yes , I like skinny but not too skinny and curvy girls and by curvy I don't mean like over weight but like meat on her bones and voluptuous .
I also like tomboys .

 

"I find straight porn fake. It is very difficult to find something I like."
That's how I feel about lesbian porn honestly. I also find it fake and a turn-off. I prefer gay male porn.

"Do you lesbians also have a preference for women that look like you?"
Not necessarily. The only thing I like on others that I have are glasses and dark hair.

"And I find penises gross unless I'm turned on but even then I don't find them beautiful (and I'm no prude, I like giving oral sex). I also don't find women's genitalia aesthetically appealing. What do girls who are into girls think?"
Actually, as a lesbian I find penises to be rather aesthetically attractive, just not sexually attractive (I don't want to touch one at ALL, but I like them in the way I would like a cat or a painting). I also find female genitals to look very attractive and sexy. The part of the body that I find to be the most gross looking are breasts, but I've also met straight women who are obsessed with them. So I guess it has no bearing on one's orientation.

"I'm also curious about what lesbians think of casual sex. Do lesbians feel the same kind of emotional bonding after sex like straight women usually do? I don't always feel it and I know this is not true love but I just find it so hard emotionally to detach myself after sex. It happened only once that a guy slept with me and then pretended to not know me and it was devastating, do lesbians have these problems as well? I somehow think that women are less likely to objectify someone sexually (although I've kind of done it myself) and find it more difficult to separate sex from love. So are lesbian relationships easier in that regard?"

This isn't a sexual orientation thing. I know a lot of straight women, including my ex-best friend, who had casual sex with men all the time without emotional consequence. I have never slept with either gender, but I personally hate casual sex. To me sex (of any kind) needs an emotional bond. I would never sleep with a girl unless I was with her for two years.