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Gay cure has been found! What you would do?

Discussion in 'Chit Chat' started by Nikky DoUrden, Feb 16, 2014.

  1. Nikky DoUrden

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    Hey friends!
    An interesting question popped into my mind a while back - if a "cure for gay" would be found, would u take it ?
     
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    Heck no being gay is a good thing so no I wouldn't want a cure for it
     
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    No, I don't think so. It would definitely make life easier, but I imagine I'd feel like I was living a lie. I am who I am, for better or for worse.
     
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    No, I wouldn't. I like girls haha, and I don't wanna change that. I'd rather spend the rest of my life with one than a guy...
     
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    Definitely not - boys are hot.
     
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    Nuh uh you gotta answer too OP :grin:

    Maybe in the past i would have, but these days I kinda think of gay as something to take pride in to be honest. Like, its who i am, even if i did want to change it, it would only be because being gay isnt accepted and other people are narrow minded, and they can go jump in the ocean quite frankly. i refuse to change myself to make other people feel better. Flame on! (!)
     
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    Nope. I like my life too much for me to do something to take such an integral part of it away. Being gay has given me much more positives than negatives, and I wouldn't change it for the world.
     
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    Definitly not! I mean, being gay isn't easy, but it almost scares me now to imagine having a "normal life." Normal romance, normal relationship, normal marriage, normal family, normal job, normal kids, normal aging, normal death, normal funeral...
     
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    Exactly, coming out gay has made me feel happier and free. I pretended to be straight and date guys but it made me depressed and uncomfortable. I'm not gonna change to make others feel comfortable while I suffer, they have the problem, not us. :slight_smile:

    Even though it may be a bumpy road ahead, it's gonna be worth it. I feel a lot better about my future.
     
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    haha you got me! :grin:

    I actually don't know because on the one hand it WOULD make my life so much easier, but on the other hand as people said, its who I am, and what iv'e been shaped into in my life, and throwing it away would not make me feel comfortable nor pride with myself. :icon_bigg
     
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    Nope. It's taken me this long to accept myself, but destroy that progress?
     
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    No, I'm not ashamed of who I am...and taking a cure would imply there is something wrong with me.
     
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    being bi is who I am. I would never want to cure what isn't broken
     
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    Besides if i wasnt gay i wouldnt have met all you guys on here <3 (*hug*)
     
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    A few months ago I would have said hell yes... But now... No. The idea of being with a male repulses me. And I wouldn't want to conform to the "normal" just because others are against it. In some ways... I like being different. Yes it's hard especially when coming out to different people/people you have just met... But I see it as more of a challenge. Now if I could only get over my fear of being alone for the rest of my life....
     
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    This; funnily enough, it's caused enough stress/issues that I'd be even more annoyed to have gone through all of this for nothing. Even with the annoyances, I couldn't give up liking guys like that anyways.

    Also, as @DoNotTell1987 mentioned, being different can be tons of fun. :eusa_danc
     
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    I would never use a "cure" I don't need to be healed, I'm good the way I am :slight_smile:
     
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    Personally, I would take it. A lot of the times I don't really like being gay, but that's just me.
     
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    Doesn't something have to cure an illness before it can be considered a cure?

    In serious though I would be worried if a "cure" was found, because I guarantee you that many, many people including minors will have it forced on them, whether it be by their family, groups or even governments. We see it already with the rise of gay conversion therapy.

    A "cure" for homosexuality would be a very, very dangerous thing indeed.
     
  20. Smoochies

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    I'm happy with it, true love.