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The Most Unattracted Thing A Girl Or Guy Can Do?

Discussion in 'Chit Chat' started by willycubed28, Feb 19, 2014.

  1. willycubed28

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    This thread isn't about what is unattractive in a guy or girl. I really want to know what is the one thing a girl or a guy will do that will make you think "That is unattractive".
     
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    If a girl is so vain that she posts 1000 pictures of herself on social media, but then complains that she's "ugly" to get attention. That really makes a girl unattractive to me.

    Attention seekers in general are really unattractive to me. That along with people who are ignorant or those who contradict every word they say. So basically, stupidity. Stupidity is a huge turn off.
     
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    wearing Romanesque sandals... I don't know what it is, but it is a turn off to me
     
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    drama queens.
     
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    A few things that I would find generally repulsive

    - Anyone who's self-important. I just can't stand that mentality type it's not for me >.>

    - Anyone with zero sense of manners. I don't care if you're a little rude or vulgar, I know I can be. There is a line though, and some people blatantly cross it and I'm not looking to be with someone like that -.-'

    - Ungenerous. I don't need an absolute altruist, I wouldn't even really want someone like that, but if you can't be bothered to do something like let a guy bum a cig or maybe pick up a co-workers lunch when they forgot their wallet at home I'm dis interested.

    If we're talking physical traits though...

    Over or under weight. I don't mean someone who's got a few extra pounds or someone who's a smidge under. What I'm talking about are people that look like skeltor and people who ride around in electro scooters at Walmart. *shivers*
     
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    Vanity/Narcissism - If all you care about is the exterior, I won't waste my time on you.

    Rudeness - If you can't be bothered to act like a civilized human being in public and to others, go be obnoxious with someone else who can tolerate it.

    Stupidity/Stubborn - We all make mistakes and are ignorant of things other people may know. However, if you refuse to better yourself intellectually and/or constantly insist you are correct even when its blatantly obvious you are wrong, don't bother me.


    In any event, if you're not full of yourself, a complete jerk or a blithering idiot I'm likely to talk and give you a chance.
     
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    rudeness, vanity and high maintenance. physically too much makeup.
     
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    This.

    I don't like it when guys can't sense the difference in social situations and act accordingly. I don't mind, as much, if he passes gas or burps or eats messily in private, but I find it a turnoff when they behave as such publicly.
     
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    - Being straight ( :eusa_liar )

    - Judge other people about their looks, religion (or absence of it), etc. I find that extremely annoying, it doesn't matter how attractive the person is.

    - Doing something against animal/plant diversity like killing an insect just because.

    - Talk a lot without knowing when to stop
     
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    -someone who acts superior to other people for things that they have no control over.

    -making fun of mine or someone else's looks. I get it, I'm not that attractive, don't be an ass about it.

    -someone who gives up too easily.
     
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    Well being from Jersey i gotta say no matter what gender the fake tan is a turnoff
    other than that, being Rude/narcissistic is not good at all, any form of bullying to anyone, and when they are to quick to take something offensively (simple joke turning into a political debate)
     
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    This applies to both girls and guys:

    When people gossip about / badmouth other people.
    When they judge people based on what they've heard instead of finding out for themselves
    Bad table manners, and using too much sauce on their food
    Attention seekers and when they fish for compliments
    People who are full of themselves and think they're a gift to humankind (superiority)
     
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    Dismiss things that are important to others. Little else will get me so hopping mad as somebody who doesn't care about things the people around him or her go through hardship to achieve.

    This was me in middle school, before I had much of any kind of identity. Now it just shows that a person is incapable of empathy, and that means relationship chance drops to zero.
     
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    People who are narrowminded, insensitive, and boring.
     
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    Rudeness. Anger.
    Being unsanitary. not washing hands, not cleaning up, picking your nose in public and (ewww) eating your booger.
     
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    A guy or girl liking animals and if they look gross.
     
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    Mainly rudeness.
    Not being clean. (like noticeably greasy hair and B.O)
    Judgemental people. It's hard to bite my tongue around them.
    And obnoxious people. I can handle it for the most part, but when they over do it, that's when I start to have a problem.
     
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    Smoking and excessive tattoos/piercings
     
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    Straight guys going to LGBT spaces just to pick up girls and harrass people who protest against it.
     
  20. Beantown

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    people do that?