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Is there such a thing as a perfect person?

Discussion in 'Chit Chat' started by 7eye, Feb 19, 2014.

  1. 7eye

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    ...even if they're not much of a looker? The people I know can find fault with someone else, and this makes me lose faith in humanity.
     
  2. Simple Thoughts

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    I personally don't think there is such a thing as perfect.
     
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    Everyone has flaws and foibles. There is no such thing as perfection. But the good thing is we can recognize and learn from our flaws and try to better ourselves.
     
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    Of course not, in the purest sense. Is there a perfect person for you? Possibly. A person doesn't need to be literally flawless to be exactly the one you need.
     
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    Nobody's perfect. Not in everyone's eyes anyway. People's views differ. Someone might be perfect to you, but not to the next person. So in short: No.

    ---------- Post added 19th Feb 2014 at 11:18 PM ----------

    You took the words right out of my mouth, lol
     
  6. Fallingdown7

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    I don't believe that because everyone has flaws, and even your perfect idea of a lover will probably irritate you and make you angry from time to time.
     
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    I don't think there is such a perfect person. There are so many aspects of life and each individual that there are bound to be flaws we find in others.
     
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    if u'll look deep enough u'll find flaws in everyone :stuck_out_tongue_closed_eyes:

    EDIT: and the thing is to find a partner that u can live with all his traits
     
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    *cough*cough*

    in my opinion... to be perfect you have to have flaws otherwise all the amazing things about you cannot shine.

    i shall now take a quote from one of my favourite tv series...

    "We had it all. We messed up bigger and better than any generation before us. WE WERE SO BEAUTIFUL. I'm a screw up, and I plan to be a screw up until my late 20's, even my early 30's"
     
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    If there is such a thing as perfection, good looks alone could never constitute it in my opinion.
     
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    on the worlds spectrum i am nobody, nobody is perfect, therefore i am perfect.
     
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    Misfits?
     
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    Besides Jennifer Lawrence? No.

    But seriously, I think EVERYONE is perfect in their own unique way :grin:
     
  14. 7eye

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    Any other perf girls? (don't have to answer this, btw)
     
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    Let's be honest: Jennifer Lawrence is everyone's guilty pleasure.

    But I have to agree: no one is perfect according to society's constructed definition because everyone has their flaws. BUT, everyone is perfect in a self-sense when they are nothing trying to be anyone BUT themselves. (kinda like #noshame this is me take it or leave it~)
     
  16. Beantown

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    wasn't Jesus like perfect?
     
  17. Aussie792

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    Jennifer Lawrence is a pretty horrible person, actually.

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    Of course there's no such thing as a perfect person. There are some qualities that can be taken for granted as good or bad, but there are some that I might find perfect and another might not like them. I'm sure it's possible to be an entirely good person, but nobody can be perfect by everyone's standards.
     
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    Nope, everybody is flawed and has their own demons. Sometimes it's easy to feel like whoever you're crushing on is perfect, but if you spend enough time with someone you're bound to be upset or annoyed by them at some point. Perfection is boring. :slight_smile:
     
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    No human is perfect. Ever. BUT: You need to accept anyone's "flaws", so long as they don't hurt another person. That's where the line is drawn. In a relationship, that's exactly what you do. People go into relationships because they know they aren't perfect, and they try and change themselves for better or worse. If you ever have a partner, do know that they have flaws to your standards, but accept those flaws. Because the sooner you do, the more perfect your relationship is.
     
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    How come?

    And to answer the OP, there's no such thing. It's easy to romanticize someone and think they're perfect and for a while they can seem flawless but their flaws will reveal themselves eventually. The question is whether or not the flaws are enough to put you off someone. For me, I was dating this girl very recently and I thought she was without fault but then she cheated on me and completely shattered my trust. So people can surprise you, in positive or negative ways.

    Also, this might sound silly but sometimes I find a persons small imperfections make them even more perfect in my eyes.