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What's appealing about glory holes?

Discussion in 'Chit Chat' started by ornoir29, Feb 20, 2014.

  1. ornoir29

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    Hello everyone,

    a question out of sheer curiosity: for the ones who've done it, what's appealing about glory holes?

    I'm not interested to try (I'm VEEEERY vanilla), but I'm curious as regards what people find in it. I just don't get it :slight_smile:
     
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    It's not something I'd ever wanna do. Too anonymous and kind of gross to me >.>
     
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    Same. That's why I ask to the ones who like it. If they do it, there must be something nice...
     
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    I guess it's because a) public places b) it's promiscuous c) it's somebody you don't know

    I've fantasized about it, but if I were in a toilet and someone shoved their dick from the next booth, the last thing I'd do is engage with it sexually
     
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    It's all about the anonymity and the sexual thrill one experiences when engaging in sexual activities with a total stranger. Personally, I am far too paranoid about contracting a disease to even contemplate doing anything like that.
     
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    ^ That right there

    I think there are better ways to get your anon rush than a glory hole >.>
     
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    Way too disease phobic to consider such a thing.

    Plus, what if the person was a psycho, and bit it off??? Ouch!

    And, there's better ways to get the effect of anonymity, even with your partner of many years...we sometimes play various roles, one can use leather and latex masks and such and play out scenarios safely with a lover.

    Glory holes seem like some kind of past relic, from when people were more deeply closeted.
     
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    What a bleakness.

    I prefer to go whoring at this point u.u
     
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    Yeah, but I'm someone who can only enjoy monogamous sex, possibly in a big comfortable bed.

    I'm asking because whereas some other practices I understand, this is really out of my understanding. It's probably the anonymity, as some pointed out.
     
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    I'd say that's the case :stuck_out_tongue_closed_eyes:

    No worries on why you asked. Around here there is no need to shy away from a question.
     
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    I admit that glory hole sex is a fantasy of mine, and, as someone whom is deeply closeted, I'm sure that this is the reason why. With the glory hole, one can kind of disassociate the act from the idea of "having sex", because you're only making love to a "disembodied" body part.

    That said, I too am way too disease-phobic to ever try to make the fantasy a reality.
     
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    If I didn't have to worry about diseases I'd totally do it. That way it wouldn't matter how socially awkward I am or how much body fat I have; the part of me that goes through the glory hole works just fine. But because of my fear of STDs I won't do it unless it's just a handjob.
     
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    For me, nada. For some people, it's the appeal of anonymity. I was kind of shocked to see glory holes at a rest stop just up the Interstate from here. I'm surprised the state didn't see that and put in a work order to repair the stalls...
     
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    I imagine that's exactly what people enjoy about it
     
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    I'd imagine so too xD
     
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    Never done it but it's a huuuuge fantasy of mine, and yeah it's mostly about the thrill, the "taboo" of public/stranger sex, and maybe even the ease of a no-strings just-sexual encounter.
     
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    Not a single thing whatsoever.

    If I'm going to suck on penis, I want to see the person whose penis I'm sucking.

    If I'm going to be anally penetrated, I want to feel that person's warm legs against my butt. Not a wall.
     
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    I'm afraid to look it up....what is a glory hole?:help:
     
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    You're better off not knowing xD
     
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    It almost sounds like something religious.