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Do you get nervous or turned on when someone flirts or is seductive with you?

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  1. Rosepetal

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    I get embarrassed and nervous when i get hit on and when a guy who i dont know flirts with me i get uncomfortable but when my bf is flirty l`ll get um excited lol does anyone else feel the same?
     
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    It mostly depends on the guy. If I like them, then I get kind of turned on by it, but I'm more of a cute type of flirter than the sexual type. If I don't know them all that well, I'll just take it as a compliment.

    My ex was like the king of flirting, lol.
     
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    I'd get nervous, though I've never had a guy flirt with me :bang:
     
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    To be honest, I'd probably think that they had some sort of ulterior motive behind it, and probably react quite rudely towards them.

    Either that, or that they were just being friendly towards me, and wouldn't take it to heart.
     
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    I've only had one guy ever flirt with me and I was super turned on I mean he had his arm around me for like 30 minutes straight and I was basically snuggling with him.....he was passing it off as a joke because he's "obviously not gay" and his family is really conservative so he ditched me and asked one of my friends out and she said yes so that was fun.
     
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    Nervous nah, turned on yah, depending how they look like
     
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    aww *hugs* 30 minutes str8 lol get it bc 30 minutes he was straight lol
     
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    I get a bit nervous if Im not attracted to the guy and we've been chatting/hanging out for a bit. Makes for some awkward conversations. I hate it.
     
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    same here i hate it 2
     
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    hahaha i suspect he's not very straight *hugs back* thank you :slight_smile:
     
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    Mostly nervous.
     
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    ur welcome he didnt deserve you :slight_smile: btw i was trying to cheer up with that pun not put you down :slight_smile:
     
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    No-one random has ever flirted with me, haha. When my ex flirted with me or was seductive, I was nervous and turned on lol I'm a nervous person.
     
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    haha lol i thought girls would have a different reaction than guys do bc im a girl myself lol
     
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    I'm usually oblivious to this kind of stuff but I would be nervous. I'm not much for small talk or conversations, I'm kinda shy so I guess it depends on the situation really.
     
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    I don't like men hitting on me. It makes me uncomfortable and I feel threatened. Also depends on the girl if she's hitting on me. Doesn't mean I'm interested, though. I have my standards too, haha.
     
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    bc guys invade personal space? nd depends on the girl? what do u mean? lol
     
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    I get really irritated when people flirt with me regardless of gender. total turn-off.
     
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    I get nervous and anxious when a stranger starts flirting with me. But if it's someone I've known for a while, and am comfortable around then it's a little different. A bit weird but not as bad as when it's a stranger. I always get paranoid and think they've been dared to flirt with me and aren't sincere. Or that I'm the ugly girl who now suddenly looks like a good catch because they're drunk :eusa_doh:

    So yeah, flirting is "meh" - I am very suspicious of people so I usually screw it up anyway. Or I'm completely oblivious to the fact :lol:
     
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    I don't know because it never happened, but I guess if its around people i'll obviously be nervous and try actually to hide the fact im gay :confused: