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Dresses with skinny jeans under (as a male) *pic

Discussion in 'Chit Chat' started by Agathist, Feb 25, 2014.

  1. Agathist

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    TL;DR info, you can read the first few run-on sentences and comment on the picture without reading below the +++'s, I understand how daunting a post like this is when you're late for bed/work or sick of reading, and it's raw, skip it!

    Basically what do you think of the style? Because I went out like this tonight.
    I did not wear a wig or makeup, I'm not comfortable with it like I am with dresses, and this specific one has been calling me out of the closet :3
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    Here's me getting carried away with the keyboard:
    Gawrsh I adore my feminine figure and it's gotten me into a healthier lifestyle to try and get it back since I've been abusing it for awhile, just tonight I built the confidence to wear a dress in public, it was kinda elegant so to downplay it I wore some skinny jeans.

    I really like the way it looks, I wear a cardigan (safety blanket), and kept it wrapped around me until I was in a secure room. I'm incredibly scared to insult people though, I want to keep a slight ###### of facial hair, I have a pretty masculine voice and don't want to change it, I don't want to transition and I feel the LGBT (especially T) community would be even harsher than straight/cis people thinking I'm just trying to be different and get attention, I'm incredibly shy and don't like attention, why can't a guy just wear a fucking dress, I hate society, but at the same time I guess I'm thankful to live in a time and place where I am even able to consider this. Sorry for being all over the place, I've been typing/erasing for more than an hour now and I'm tired.
     
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    I would just wear what you are comfortable with. The dress looks more fancy than casual so I wouldn't have worn jeans with it, but that's my opinion.
     
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    Leggings yo...
     
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    At first I thought those markings were glitter, ha.
     
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    That is glitter, there's no dots outside of the dress, just a little smudgy near the flash, sorry for such a bad picture, I'm too shaky to take good ones.

    So a no-go on the skinnies :stuck_out_tongue_closed_eyes: well thanks for opinions, shopping is difficult and I have to take it pretty slow cuz I'm broke and stuck at thrift stores, and am also too uncomfortable to wear a bra in public, not alot of dresses look good on a flat chest.
     
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    I don't know any females, genetic or otherwise that do dresses and jeans. Maybe you would start a new fashion trend?
     
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    I'm considering it, cuz I really enjoy the way it looks, even though I understand it's a bit silly, fashion rules don't really exist anymore so whynot?
     
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    "Why can't a guy just wear a fucking dress, I hate society" - My thoughts exactly. You look awesome, and should feel awesome, because who honestly cares what people wear and why? If I had my way I would be in robes 24/7 because they are honestly the most comfortable things in the world. Everyone should be able to dress however they want and it's as simple as that.
     
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    Looks great ^^ not my style but I like it ^^ I would just worn the dress IDC where my destination was lol I just love being in a dress.
     
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    I think it looks really great. Go out and impress. Who cares what anyone else thinks as long as you like it. Just make sure you stay safe, because some people are ignorant enough to make a big deal about it. Then again, that could just be because their too insecure about themselves and jealous that they can't pull it off like you can. :slight_smile:
     
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    Yea I don't mean to hate if that's what you think so I apologize. Do what makes you comfortable.
     
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    That dress is so cute! :3 And it looks really good on you.
    It looks nice with the jeans, and I think a pair of black skinny jeans would have really matched as well.
    Wear whatever you want!
     
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    When asked why by my grandmother I said, "because I thought it was cute, and think it's bullshit that a guy can't wear a dress"
    I think I'll stick with that response and throw a can of pepper spray in my purse just incase.
    You guys are awesome, thanks for the input!
     
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    They are just clothes.... Cmon gramma.

    Seriously when will people get over it's just a piece of cloth in a different style, it is not tied to ones sex.