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I get hit on by men...and I'm straight.

Discussion in 'Chit Chat' started by pane123, Feb 26, 2014.

  1. pane123

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    I have to admit, I'm not flattered, nor am I repulsed. I feel nothing except for wishing it were a woman asking me.

    I think what is giving off the wrong signals is that I cannot look at women. But that is due to nerves. I feel scared to make eye contact with women. I don't care, nor feel attracted to men, so I can easily make eye contact with them. Do you think this is what giving off the wrong signals?
     
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    Yea probably. If I saw a guy who couldn't look at girls and was cute I would probably make a move to. It just looks like your gay if you can't look at girls. You should try to get over the nervousness with girls and maybe the guys will stop. Or maybe guys just think your cute so they true to make a move regardless if your gay or straight.

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    I hope that helped.
     
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    Yeah I agree with Cody lover.
     
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    Yeah, I'm definitely going to start looking, it's just, if I keep looking/staring won't they think I'm a creeper?

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    And yeah, this might sound bad, but is there anything, as well as looking at girls to show that I'm 100 percent straight, to deter men from approaching?

    As I said, might sound bad, but, it will save them from wasting their time?
     
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    Probably! :3

    I don't know how to describe it, but maybe try looking at girls when they are not looking at you? Just sorta look than look away... like you are shy. :slight_smile:

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    Not really, just turn them down gently and try not to look disgusted. :slight_smile:
     
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    I'm not disgusted, I just feel nothing. Will me just telling them that I'm straight do the trick, or do I need to explain or do more?? just so I'm prepared.
     
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    You don't need to explain yourself. Just be like "Hey bro, you're cool and all, but I like boobs". That's what I do when guys hit on me lol :grin:
     
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    I get straight guys hitting on me all the time. I'm not even "hot." It's awkward haha. Where all the gay girls at?
     
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    You remind me of that character RAJ from 'The Big Bang Theory'
     
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    Exactly! :icon_bigg
     
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    Why are you on a gay forum if you're straight though? Not judging, just a bit confused
     
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    Probably because he wants advice from gays about how to interact with other gays?
     
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