When the sex you're not into tries to seduce you...

I laugh it off and make a joke out of it.

 

I sympathize with them and let them down easy-- as long as they weren't flirting in a threatening or overdone way, there's no reason to take offense.

 

I sort of can't help playing along, even though I know it's most likely not gonna lead to anything

For some reason lesbians seem to have the hardest time with it. I guess because a lot of them have this complex of their lesbian identity being threatened. While gay guys and straight girls don't really have that complex. Even a lot of straight guys are more open to it than lesbians are, depending on where you live

 

If someone I'm not into seriously tries to seduce me, I do my best to let them know it's not going to work out, whether that means playing along for a while, flat out telling them no, or even being non-responsive, since it wouldn't be fair for them to think they have a chance. It only becomes offensive after they know, but continue trying anyway.

Maybe it has something to do with the fact that female same-sex attraction doesn't seem to be taken as seriously as that for males? Lesbians are constantly told it's a phase, they can be cured by the right guy, that their sexuality is fluid, etc.

Then there's the fact that women have to face the reality that they're much more likely than men to be sexually assaulted, and when you look at the concept of "corrective rape", it's obvious that the idea is to assert power over a woman. How many gay guys seriously have to be concerned with being raped by women?

 

I play a game with them...if they can take it.
We'll stay as friends.

 

A girl asked me if I would be her boyfriend, I told her I was gay and she said she thought she had a chance. A girl called me gorgeous too. I suppose it doesn't bother me that much.

 

If a guy tries to seduce me, and won't take no for an answer, I usually just end up getting the heck away from them.

 

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I agree

For some reason there's this perception that once you've tried penis, then no woman will ever satisfy you the same way again. And no matter how many women you have sex with afterwards, you're always gonna go back to the dick. And I think this mindset is subconscious, and most people probably don't realize they have it.

This is why people who are attracted to males (gay men and straight women), generally don't care about experimenting with girls, because they know people aren't gonna question their sexuality because of it.

While people who are attracted to women (lesbians and straight men), have their guard up a lot more, because they know even the slightest admission of attraction towards a guy, might put their sexualities into question.

 

I dealt with this a lot, just let them down easy, if they don't take a hint be straight forward tell them you are not into their sexuality , if you do that and they keep on then just scream

 

the woman from next door thought her luck was in when I moved into my flat always pooping round in a low revealing top everything on show my mates find it amusing knowing am batting for the other side even Mark ''BF'' finds it funny

 

As a lesbian, when I get hit on by a straight guy I play along to get free drinks. I know, I know, I'm a horrible person.

 

I go "Aint gonna happen bro, I like boobs." And walk away.

Simple really.

 

Even though I'm bi, I'm a lot less likely to consider a romantic relationship with a guy the same way I would with a chick, so I guess I can count my experiences.

Fortunately for me, any advances from guys I have no interest in (so all advances from guys), are either so direct I can simply say "no" flatly, or so subtle I can pretend not to notice. Which works best, the former because being blunt gets the message across without any room for misinterpretation, and the latter because I always think I'm wrong when I sense a guy is interested, so I don't embarrass myself.

 

I consider it a compliment, but I will not allow anything to happen, unless I am drunk and my mental capabilities are impaired.