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Is it wrong ?

Discussion in 'Chit Chat' started by African boy, Mar 5, 2014.

  1. African boy

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    Is it wrong to feel flattered or hot when another guy make appositive remark about the way you look . if you have a boyfriend. ?
     
  2. KanayaMaryam

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    Well, hot, I'm not so sure about... but usually I do feel flattered when people compliment me as I have a very complicated history with my family and usually get insulted. So no, it's not wrong to feel flattered when someone compliments you when you have a boyfriend. =P
     
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    I don't think so, you can't control how you feel. :slight_smile:
     
  4. Simple Thoughts

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    It's not wrong to feel flattered.
     
  5. Jacob D

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    no it's not wrong to feel flattered when someone compliments you
     
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    Of course not. I usually pretend to ignore compliments so I don't appear big-headed, but they make me feel better about myself. If other people notice and reinforce your good qualities, you're bound to feel better about yourself.
     
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    i don't think it's wrong to feel flattered or hot when you're complemented, even if you have a boyfriend as long as you don't act on it.
     
  8. Incognito10

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    You're human and I think it is a normal reaction. Entering a relationship does not mean death of your emotional responses.
     
  9. awesomeyodais

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    I suppose it could depend how the compliment was made - if some dude says he likes your shirt, or your new haircut looks good, take it as a compliment, no harm done

    However if some dude says you look hot and is undressing you with his eyes I'm not sure feeling flattered is the "appropriate" response if you're already with someone... know what I mean?
     
  10. I would say it's normal.
     
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    I never get compliments so when I got one once I was like 'wow!' and it made me feel so good. Isn't this what compliments are for anyway?
     
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    Any time someone compliments me I like it. Of course I do not have a BF.
     
  13. JStevens96

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    As long as you're not cheating on him, I mean, you are human, lol. Of course we will get a feeling of happiness when complimented.