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Discussion in 'Chit Chat' started by Butterfly16, Mar 16, 2014.

  1. Butterfly16

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    I decided not to further persue the relatioship I was in as there were some red flags, anyway, that is not this post, this post is about my ex bf

    he still thinks im the only girl for him
    should I just say I recently stopped denying that im a lesbian?

    he is like a best friend/brother to me
     
  2. Just Adam

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    my advice would be to have a talk with him and to honestly tell him like you already know that you care for him but after a lot of self searching you have accepted the fact that you are a Lesbian.

    It will be hard for him as he still hopes there is a future for you two, so it is best to be gentle as possible and I am assuming you still care for him and want him in your life and the breakup to begin with was due to you questioning your sexuality ?

    good luck and take care =)
     
  3. Butterfly16

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    Yes, that is the right assumption. Thank you for your advice I think I mighttalk to him today
     
  4. silverhalo

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    Hey I agree with the above. Perhaps telling him might help him move forward.