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Omg she called me a lesbian and I'm so happy about it !!!!

Discussion in 'Chit Chat' started by stocking, Mar 18, 2014.

  1. stocking

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    A friend and i were having a chat about birth control , I said that I was planning on going on birth control , I want to because I hate my period and want it to come less , . Then she said
    "Why the hell would you need to take birth control Your a lesbian ! " I was shocked at first because I was like wow no one has ever believed me when i said I was a lesbian and finally she does and this is the first time I've ever been called a lesbian and not in a bad way just like who I am kinda way . I though wow she finally believes me . My friend told me I was way to femme to be a lesbian .
    I'm so happy you guys (!) I'm still getting the birth control :slight_smile:
     
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    Wow, that's awesome! Congrats! And your sexuality doesn't need to dictate whether or not you go on birth control. I have to admit, since I started on birth control, I haven't had period cramps anymore, which I think is definitely worth it. And I can keep good track of when my period will start, without having to remember the date. There are many benefits, but I'm sure you already know that :wink: It's your choice anyway
     
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    Aww stocking, it's nice to see you happy about something :slight_smile:
     
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    Ahww, that's great! ^-^ And birth control is fabulous. I'm on it just to control my mood swings and to keep things regular.
     
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    Hey, recognition and acceptance all rolled into one. Top stuff.
     
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    Yay!

    And I know exactly what you mean about the birth control. My mom sometimes says I should get on it just for pms. I tell you, I could rip the head off a puppy, I get so bitchy.
     
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    Hey I'm on birth control too. No shame, no shame. Congrats for recognition though!
     
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    I won't take birth control because it slightly increases your breast cancer risk, and my risk is already elevated due to a family history.
     
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    Thanks guys . my period pains have gotten bad recently it was so bad last month that I had to be sent him early from work . So I think the birth control would help . I'm not moody but I can't handle the pain sometimes