Sex or Sexuality? - Empty Closets - A safe online community for gay, lesbian, bisexual, transgendered people coming out

otc877 · 18th Jul 2008, 10:24 PM

Which would you change if you had to? Neither isn't an option, choose one and give reasons why

18th Jul 2008, 10:27 PM

I would only change my sexuality cause I hate it. Quite passionately I might add.

TheSuburbian · 18th Jul 2008, 10:28 PM

I wish I was bi, so then everyone would be hot.

No wait... I take it back, I like being gay.

18th Jul 2008, 10:37 PM

My sexuality. I like being a guy!

BreakingGlass · 18th Jul 2008, 11:17 PM

I'd change my sexuality. I don't want to be straight, but I've always wondered what kind of person I'd be like if I were.

sayitforreals · 18th Jul 2008, 11:23 PM

If I had to change one I would totally change my sexuality, HOWEVER I am pretty happy with my sex and sexuality, so in all reality I wouldn't change either, but like you said, that's not an answer.

Kizen · 18th Jul 2008, 11:30 PM

Hard for me to say...

I would NOT want to be a woman,

and I'm pretty damn gay. haha

I'm gonna have to go with 'neither.'

Kimi · 18th Jul 2008, 11:30 PM

I'd change my sexuality...

Cuz even if you change your sex you'll be still homosexual right?

-Michael- · 19th Jul 2008, 05:25 AM

Id be suicidle if i was a bird...

Hormones....PMT....Periods....Sore boobs....BABIES.....AAAAAAAAARRRRRRRRRRRRRGHHHHHHH HHH

Trumpetplyer23 · 19th Jul 2008, 06:10 AM

I don't think I would change either, actually. I'm quite happy with who I am.

Although, I've always kind of wondered what being a straight guy would be like...

**Jim1454** · 19th Jul 2008, 06:30 AM

You have to pick one...

so I picked sexuality. I could get my head around being straight (seeing as I lived that way for 35 years) easier than being a woman.

**Helen** · 19th Jul 2008, 06:50 AM

I COULD NEVER BE A MAN.

I cannot even begin to fathom living a life without my boobs. XD Also, I never quite liked the idea of having a penis, or the whole erection and wet dream business :S I'm incredibly happy that I was born female, because ultimately, my femininity does tend to take over my occasional masculinity a little bit.

So I'd change my sexuality to straight, methinks. It's what I always got used to thinking I was, before I realised that I didn't have to be the same as everyone else I knew. And that way I can still be a girlie ^_^

Mutilated Audio · 19th Jul 2008, 06:58 AM

My sexuality. I like being a girl.. Lol and plus changing my sex is way to much work, and people will find it harder to accept me..

Poring · 19th Jul 2008, 07:12 AM

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Originally Posted by Mutilated Audio

My sexuality. I like being a girl.. Lol and plus changing my sex is way to much work, and people will find it harder to accept me..

yeah lol, I guess I'm to used to being a guy to change my sex.

so yeah, I'd rather change my sexuality... not that I'd want to!

jazzrawr · 19th Jul 2008, 07:18 AM

But...but...that's a hard decision! XD Cause I wouldn't change either! I agree with Helen, I can't imagine life without boobs. XD
I like being a girl. It's fun.

And I rather like being gay, as well. I wouldn't want to be straight...

Dang.
Well, if i have to choose, i'd say my sexuality i guess. Cause being bi would be cool. But a bit confusing sometimes.

Kenko · 19th Jul 2008, 07:22 AM

Sexuality. I like being a guy, but I don't always like being gay.

19th Jul 2008, 07:29 AM

sexuality... i like my peter!

Nick · 19th Jul 2008, 07:43 AM

If I had to change something, it would probably be my sexuality. But that's only because I had to choose one.

Wow... that was a lame reason... So a quick question: Are we being reborn with the changes? Or the changes are applied to our current lives? Do we have any memories of life before the change?

If we are reborn (with no memory): Sex.

Reborn (with memory): Sexuality.

Current life (no memory): Sexuality.

Current life (with memory): Sexuality.

Blue · 19th Jul 2008, 07:50 AM

I voted sexuality, i couldn't cope with the whole the wohole periods thing and then the menopause... too many hormones for my liking. But i would like to know what being pregnant feels like

Beebo · 19th Jul 2008, 09:26 AM

I decided to change my sex, because I like guys too much.

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Sexuality (Gay/Straight/Bi)	57	78.08%
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18th Jul 2008, 10:24 PM	#1
otc877 ^_^ Full Member Gender: Male Orientation: Gay Out Status: Most friends know Location: L.A. Outskirts Age: 22 Posts: 790 Join Date: Oct 2007	Sex or Sexuality? Which would you change if you had to? Neither isn't an option, choose one and give reasons why

18th Jul 2008, 10:27 PM	#2
Midnight Angel Guest Posts: n/a	Re: Sex or Sexuality? I would only change my sexuality cause I hate it. Quite passionately I might add.

18th Jul 2008, 10:28 PM	#3
TheSuburbian Can't help himself. Regular Member Gender: Male Orientation: Gay Out Status: Out to everyone Location: St. Louis West County, Missouri Age: 19 Posts: 193 Join Date: Jul 2008	Re: Sex or Sexuality? I wish I was bi, so then everyone would be hot. No wait... I take it back, I like being gay. __________________ PMs are appreciated, but not required. They help me remember that random people still care.

18th Jul 2008, 10:37 PM	#4
Blue0090 Guest Posts: n/a	Re: Sex or Sexuality? My sexuality. I like being a guy!

18th Jul 2008, 11:17 PM	#5
BreakingGlass Don't Stop The Music! Full Member Gender: Male Orientation: Homo-rific Out Status: 3-ish people Location: Ohio Age: 24 Posts: 899 Join Date: Jan 2008	Re: Sex or Sexuality? I'd change my sexuality. I don't want to be straight, but I've always wondered what kind of person I'd be like if I were. __________________ The Homosexual Agenda 1. Spend Time with Family 2. Be Treated Equally 3. Buy Milk

18th Jul 2008, 11:23 PM	#6
sayitforreals Well Known Full Member Gender: Male Orientation: open minded. Out Status: Almost 15 friends, and mom. Location: Ky. I wear shoes btw. Age: 21 Posts: 162 Join Date: Mar 2008	Re: Sex or Sexuality? If I had to change one I would totally change my sexuality, HOWEVER I am pretty happy with my sex and sexuality, so in all reality I wouldn't change either, but like you said, that's not an answer.

18th Jul 2008, 11:30 PM	#7
Kizen Listener Regular Member Gender: Male Orientation: Gay Out Status: Out to everyone Location: Gainesville Age: 21 Posts: 17 Join Date: Jul 2008	Re: Sex or Sexuality? Hard for me to say... I would NOT want to be a woman, and I'm pretty damn gay. haha I'm gonna have to go with 'neither.'

18th Jul 2008, 11:30 PM	#8
Kimi EC's Biggest Horndog Full Member Gender: Male Orientation: Gay Out Status: A few people Location: Japan Age: 22 Posts: 3,017 Join Date: Feb 2007	Re: Sex or Sexuality? I'd change my sexuality... Cuz even if you change your sex you'll be still homosexual right? __________________ AMAZINGLY, I GET HOTTER WITH MY CLOTHES OFF

19th Jul 2008, 05:25 AM	#9
-Michael- Been gone a while. Full Member Gender: Male Orientation: DragonPhoenixLightningAwesome Out Status: Out to everyone Location: Middlesbrough, North-east England Age: 20 Posts: 2,195 Join Date: Jun 2008	Re: Sex or Sexuality? Id be suicidle if i was a bird... Hormones....PMT....Periods....Sore boobs....BABIES.....AAAAAAAAARRRRRRRRRRRRRGHHHHHHH HHH

19th Jul 2008, 06:30 AM	#11
Jim1454 EC 'Dad' EC Advisor Gender: Male Orientation: Gay Out Status: Out to everyone Location: Toronto Age: 41 Posts: 7,445 Join Date: Mar 2007	Re: Sex or Sexuality? You have to pick one... so I picked sexuality. I could get my head around being straight (seeing as I lived that way for 35 years) easier than being a woman. __________________ Jim "It is never too late to be what you might have been."

19th Jul 2008, 06:50 AM	#12
Helen Empty Closets Mod EC Moderator Gender: Female Orientation: Bisexual Out Status: Inconsequential if people know. Location: York, United Kingdom Age: 19 Posts: 2,101 Join Date: Mar 2008	Re: Sex or Sexuality? I COULD NEVER BE A MAN. I cannot even begin to fathom living a life without my boobs. XD Also, I never quite liked the idea of having a penis, or the whole erection and wet dream business :S I'm incredibly happy that I was born female, because ultimately, my femininity does tend to take over my occasional masculinity a little bit. So I'd change my sexuality to straight, methinks. It's what I always got used to thinking I was, before I realised that I didn't have to be the same as everyone else I knew. And that way I can still be a girlie ^_^ __________________ I want a window where I can see a tree, or even water... (....and the lesbians)

19th Jul 2008, 06:58 AM	#13
Mutilated Audio A new product of this society Regular Member Gender: Female Orientation: bi curious Out Status: A few people Location: Miami Age: 17 Posts: 14 Join Date: Jul 2008	Re: Sex or Sexuality? My sexuality. I like being a girl.. Lol and plus changing my sex is way to much work, and people will find it harder to accept me..

19th Jul 2008, 07:18 AM	#15
jazzrawr Lover of Loony Lovegood Full Member Gender: Female Orientation: Lesimbean Out Status: I scream it from rooftops Location: Ontario, Canada. Age: 19 Posts: 3,391 Join Date: Feb 2008	Re: Sex or Sexuality? But...but...that's a hard decision! XD Cause I wouldn't change either! I agree with Helen, I can't imagine life without boobs. XD I like being a girl. It's fun. And I rather like being gay, as well. I wouldn't want to be straight... Dang. Well, if i have to choose, i'd say my sexuality i guess. Cause being bi would be cool. But a bit confusing sometimes. __________________ <3 You can love people so much... But you can never love someone as much as you can miss them. (...and the lesbians.)

19th Jul 2008, 07:22 AM	#16
Kenko EC Addict Full Member Gender: Male Orientation: Gay Out Status: A few friends + parents Location: Canada Age: 26 Posts: 1,407 Join Date: Jan 2007	Re: Sex or Sexuality? Sexuality. I like being a guy, but I don't always like being gay.

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19th Jul 2008, 07:29 AM	#17
Master Hade Guest Posts: n/a	Re: Sex or Sexuality? sexuality... i like my peter!

19th Jul 2008, 07:43 AM	#18
Nick was a pinstripe. Full Member Gender: Male Orientation: K4/5 ? Out Status: Some people Location: Melbourne, Australia Age: 20 Posts: 492 Join Date: Jun 2008	Re: Sex or Sexuality? If I had to change something, it would probably be my sexuality. But that's only because I had to choose one. Wow... that was a lame reason... So a quick question: Are we being reborn with the changes? Or the changes are applied to our current lives? Do we have any memories of life before the change? If we are reborn (with no memory): Sex. Reborn (with memory): Sexuality. Current life (no memory): Sexuality. Current life (with memory): Sexuality. __________________ "When it comes to exploring the sea of love, I prefer buoys" - Andrew G. Dehel Last edited by Nick; 19th Jul 2008 at 07:48 AM..

19th Jul 2008, 07:50 AM	#19
Blue Member Regular Member Gender: Male Orientation: Bisexual Out Status: I told some friends who'll tell others and so on Location: The United Kingdom of GB and Northern Ireland Age: 20 Posts: 12 Join Date: Jun 2008	Re: Sex or Sexuality? I voted sexuality, i couldn't cope with the whole the wohole periods thing and then the menopause... too many hormones for my liking. But i would like to know what being pregnant feels like

19th Jul 2008, 09:26 AM	#20
Beebo the cat what has facial hair. Full Member Gender: MAN Orientation: Gay Out Status: Out to everyone Location: Toronto Age: 23 Posts: 893 Join Date: Feb 2008	Re: Sex or Sexuality? I decided to change my sex, because I like guys too much. __________________ New Song up. a rough version of "The Ghost of Adam".(I will be adding more.)