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Fellow lesbians, please help.

Discussion in 'Chit Chat' started by rmds, Mar 19, 2014.

  1. rmds

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    So after years of being unsure and confused, I've recently embraced my sexuality and realized I'm a lesbian.

    However...

    I'm really afraid that I'm going to have a hard time going down on girls. I want to... the desire is there... but I hate my own taste so much that I'm worried I could never enjoy it with someone else.

    Is it common to hate the way you taste, but like the way others' taste? It honestly makes me gag and I don't find anything pleasant about it.
     
  2. Lipstick Leuger

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    It's completely different when you care for someone and you want to please them. I was worried I would hate it also, but once I did it, I found it to be a turn on.

    On the other hand, not every Lesbian likes to get or give oral sex. There are other things you can do in bed, so I would not even worry about it. Talk with your partner when you get on and go from there.
     
  3. Fallingdown7

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    I think a shower beforehand or flavored gels can help.
     
  4. stocking

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    Eating a lot of fruits help and well as a good hygiene .
    I eat lots of fruits and very healthy . But I like my own taste I even get aroused by the smell of it .
     
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    :confused:I've never tasted my own is that bad? I'm not even sure how one would do that
     
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    It's not bad . I was nervous about it at first but then I tried it and like it it can be quite enjoyable
     
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    How do you do it?
     
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    I just lick my finger tips during you know .
     
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    Citrus fruits. Avoid DAIRY products. Plenty of water intake. And of course, good hygiene. Give it a week or two and see how it goes.
     
  10. Claudette

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    I don't have "My Own" per-say.. but your diet does effect the taste, as does PH balance down there. I always hated using my "member" so I would always opt to go down on women.
    I like to think the tolerance for the spectrum of "tastes" comes with the experience, but I think what got me hooked was my first girlfriend tasted like strawberries. Just remember not everyone will taste the same, and like Lipstick said there are other options so don't force yourself.
    A trick I was told but never tried was to drink something nasty and acquire the taste for that (like wine, I think wine is pretty nasty lol) and it will help getting adjusted to other things
     
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    I never... it's kinda awkward to lick your own
     
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    Yea that's what I think but I guess I could try it
     
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    I'd rather lick someone else's
     
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    It's awkward at first but you get use to it . I only did it to get use to the taste .
     
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    Oh, did you like it?
     
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    Yeah but I don't to it all the time only occasionally
     
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    I neither like nor dislike mine it just tastes kinda salty but like everyone else said hygiene, diet, and just the person in general will change the taste. I don't think you'll have a problem going down on someone as long as you keep an open mind. :grin:
     
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    Well.. I never really cared much for my own taste when I got curious to see what its like.
    But then I got my 1st girlfriend and because my feelings were so strong for her.. when I went down on her it was like heaven. Unfortunately we broke up because I was scared of coming out and didn't want to live a lie. She felt the same way too. I didn't want her to be that ''friend'' at a family gathering.. when in reality we were girlfriends and did so much more then just hug. Time healed though.. we're still friends to this day :slight_smile:

    You know what? Don't worry too much! Every girl tastes different according to a few people I know. I've only ever had 1 girlfriend so I don't know how all women taste.. but yeah. It will be alright don't stress! :kiss:
     
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    It's kinda hot when your partner goes down on you and when you're kissing later you can taste yourself on their lips.
     
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    I like my own taste so I would probably like this .