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If you had to sleep with the gender you're not attracted to..

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  1. awesomeness

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    Do you ever think about this? Lets say you had to have sex with someone of the gender that you're not sexually attracted to..

    What would they have to look/be like, for the experience to be as pleasing and as non-awkward as possible?
     
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    As feminine as possible.
     
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    i did this once but I just didn't really care what they looked like to be honest
    I just did it because I wanted to know if I was lesbian or not I would take an over weight fat guy for all I care . Because I kept thinking damn I'm not attracted to any men at all might as well just grab any body . Now that I think about it that should have been enough to let me know i was lesbian , i just had a hard time accepting back then :icon_sad:
    Plus I'm not doing again it was horrible
     
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    I'd prefer sleeping in the bath.
     
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    That's unlikely to be a problem.
     
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    No way! Even thinking about touching a vagoo makes me cringe. I am a golden gay, only females I've kissed are my mom and my cats. :grin:

    Also how will bisexuals answer this question? Should they think about aliens? animals?
     
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    Having sex with animals is rape. They aren't capable of consent.

    I'd consider intelligent aliens. If they were nice.
     
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    Probably a petite blonde who would agree to do all the work and let me imagine I was with a guy just to get it over with. Not a thought I like to entertain though...

    EDIT: if I had to pick a specific person, I'd pick the girl who didn't believe that my boyfriend and I were really gay and had us each feel her boob.
     
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  10. Why would I ever have to sleep with anyone? Isn't that rape?
     
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    Well ... you must first confirm with them how do they do stuff .. u don't want it to get awkward : Scary Movie 3 Alien Scene - YouTube
     
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    While I am Bi I find masculine appearances, such as overly bulky men to be gross.
    I would rather be dead than sleep with some one I don't find attractive.

    Personality wise I would also rather be dead than sleep with someone I don't find attractive.
     
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    I said consider. Not go in blind.
     
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    A busty blond, though it's very unlikely you'll find me in bed with a woman. Angel Haze and Megan Fox are the only girls I'd turn straight for.
     
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    If it's a female that prefers topping at least to a certain point, I may be able to do it. The sex probably would have more to do with that than it would to do with me being attracted to their boobs.
     
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    Since I'm attracted to those who have traits that transcend gender, the bigger problem might be in what the other person were willing to do or not. Switching roles in bed is not an issue, but the idea of using my penis to penetrate isn't all that appealing for me, so they'd have to learn to deal with that. If they're not scared off by light bdsm or polyamory, we're off to a good start!
     
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    I have slept with a woman, but that's all that did happen... sleep! She was quite happy to sleep with me, knowing that I was gay. We both had quite a good night too.
     
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    Just sleep in a bed and actually sleep- I guess I could deal with if he was not a creepy, serial killer person or a rude jerk..I would probably sleep over the blankets with one eye open in a paranoid state


    Any other sense of the word "sleep" is just not happening.
     
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    I'd get drunk first - standards usually drop when you're intoxicated. I'd probably enjoy myself in that scenario, albeit with a lot of regret the morning after.
     
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    Pretty much accepted that I am attracted to all genders, as long as they are beautiful in their own way. (Disclaimer: body hair and a "rugged" appearance are definite turn offs.) That being the case, not sure how to answer this question. Unless we are to include asexuals. In that instance, they could probably look like Kate Upton and be unable to avoid making the whole thing an unpleasant experience, since they obviously wouldn't be enjoying it at all.