I'm a girl and I'm used to guys hitting on me or approaching me first. I have never had to approach them. With women its different, I can't just expect them to come to me first and I have no idea how to talk to them. I get all nervous and just have no clue what to say. I am a very confident person but for some reason when i want to flirt with a girl I get really shy. So any advice/tips?
common interests work... well to open a dialog, I have never been in a relationship of any sort so all I know how to do is mindless talk, nothing more lol