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Flirting!

Discussion in 'Chit Chat' started by BookDragon, Mar 22, 2014.

  1. BookDragon

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    So today something occurred to me.

    I'm actually flirting with a guy! *shock*

    A friend pointed this out to me while I was talking about our message exchange.

    Thing is, I'm now left wondering if this guy even realises I'm flirting because apparently I don't know how to do it xD

    Anyway, it amuses me. So you bunch, do you flirt like 'normal' people or are you completely terrible like me!?
     
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    I'm TERRIBLE at flirting. Hopefully i will find someone who is also terrible at this, hahaha
     
  3. DeLuna

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    Me flirting tends to be me hiding behind a tree and giggling like mad..........
     
  4. Wren

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    Flirting? You mean staring at someone, before they realise you're staring at them and look straight at you, only for you to look away, only to return to staring at them, only to get caught again and spend the rest of the hour staring at the floor? I'm an expert.
     
  5. DeLuna

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    I was crying like 2 minutes ago and you actually got me to smile a little bit so thank you........



    Yep, exactly that!!
     
  6. FireSmoke

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    I've never flirted with someone. However I prefer to flirting in a passive manner: being mysterious and attractive allows me that the girls come to me and not me to them :grin:
     
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    You're welcome, hah. :stuck_out_tongue_closed_eyes: seriously though, story of my life. I am the Stare Queen.
     
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    I am, admittedly, pretty good at this. :grin:
     
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    I have this look I give when I'm flirting with someone in person. I use pretty intense eye contact along with some lip biting lol.

    When I text, I usually use a lot of :wink: and :stuck_out_tongue_closed_eyes:
     
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    I've never flirted but I do get a dumb look on my face and am likely to trip over words if I'm casually talking to a guy I like (who is more than likely straight because I don't go to places where heterosexuality is not the norm :bang:slight_smile:. I don't know how to actually "flirt."
     
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    Yep. I was doing this and blushing madly for an hour at a bookstore just now.
     
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    I don't flirt verbally, I flirt physically.......not that kind of physical. I mean like I'll get all giggle-y and move around a lot. Ack, you get the point, maybe.
     
  13. drwinchester

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    I'm a flirt. I admit it. Pretty fucking huge one under the right circumstances. Won't say I'm good at it but no one's ever complained. Still single, so maybe that's a sign? :lol:
     
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    I'm incredibly smooth when it comes to texting. But in "real life"? Not so much haha
     
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    I've been told that I'm a flirt, though it's an unconscious thing. Maybe being a good person comes across as flirting, or maybe it's the grinding on the dancefloor?
     
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    Teach me please? :icon_bigg
     
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    Oh my...flirting is one of life's guilty pleasures for me (since I do have a long term partner). I even find myself doing it unconsciously, and sometimes when I've told myself I won't. I'm a terrible person! :stuck_out_tongue_closed_eyes:
     
  18. drwinchester

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    Teach you? Gladly. How would you like to learn? :wink:
     
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    If by "flirt" you mean making older straight guys uncomfortable, and occasionally pissing the more insecure ones off, than yes. Big time.
     
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    I am in the closet but
    I have been flirting with one of my friends. I tease him by saying am I just teasing you or am I serious,
    lol
    this friend knows Im bi though hes one of the only people who do.