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I need your help!!!!!

Discussion in 'Chit Chat' started by Kimi, Apr 3, 2007.

  1. Kimi

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    Uh...First off, I am kinda new to here so I don't really know where to post this but..uh I just gonna post it here so please be gentle :slight_smile:

    OK...It's gonna be bit long...anyways, here it goes.
    The thing is I joined to ###(##########) roughly a year ago and I got banned on there about 2 month ago.................Because of violation of policy
    More specific...I joined there when I was 16 and they found out it.(I'm still 17)
    I knew I should not join there if I'm not over 18 but I thought I'm responsible enough to be there even I'm not 18 and that's why I joined there.(To defend myself I did not know about gay community site other than ###)
    And I'm not complain about being kicked out there I know I was wrong to join threre...

    But my concern is
    Do I still get trust by others even I made huge mistake?
    Does it make me a bad person?
    Is it ok to be go online and have a fun now or I should take more time?

    I've been thinking about this just after I got banned there and it's been 2 month...
    And I still don't know the answer...
    I am really regretting that joined there and depressing about it about a week...
    I've been in my room since then...
    I really need your help.

    Thanks
    Kimi
     
  2. xequar

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    Meh, I've seen other ### exiles on here, so I wouldn't sweat it. I don't know what they're all about, but hey, their loss is our gain!
     
  3. dfgnan21

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    Yeah, I wouldn't worry about it Kimi. Since ### has porn, you must be 18 to register. If you're looking for support and good conversation in the gay community then this is the place to be :slight_smile:
     
  4. tired_of_lying411

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    Definitely alright!
    It's normal to find sites like that at this age. Don't worry about it. The important thing is that you found us here now. I think you'll find that the conversations here will be much more relevant to you.

    There are MANY blocked ### members here :slight_smile:

    Oh, and also, Welcome.
     
  5. JayHew

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    Welcome Kimi and you will not be judged by what happened. You were looking for someplace and you have finally found it. Would seem also that it is a chance for you to get to know others in your age group without the "other" distractions. Are you a bad person, no not at all. What happened is now in the past, let it stay there and move out from here.

    Again, welcome and enjoy your time here. Great people around as you can see from the above posts. Glad to have you here.
     
  6. Paul_UK

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    Welcome Kimi.

    Following on from what others have said, EC is run by the same people as ###, and it was originally set up because there were no decent sites to send the people who had to be banned from ### due to age. EC is for everyone, regardless of age etc, and you are most definitely welcome here.

    As othyers have said, you will find several people here that were sent here when being banned from ###. We don't judge people on that at all - we are just pleased you have found us and happy to welcome you to EC.
     
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    Well I was kicked off ### 2 years (before I was 18), and they still trusted me to be Mod here :wink: So you'll be fine!
     
  8. Quasar

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    Hi there Kimi. I'm one of the other Moderators over at ### - quasar21. I often come over here to see how things are - but I really don't post as much as I should :icon_redf

    Do not worry about being sent away from ###. You didn't make a huge mistake, and you are definately not a bad person.

    You wanted to make new friends who are the same as you, and that is not a bad thing to do!

    You are now here at Empty Closets where there are far more people of the same age and with similar interests and feelings. I'm sure you will make many friends here.

    Please enjoy being online and making friends. Do not be depressed about what has happened in the past - that was then, the time to be happy is NOW! :icon_bigg
     
  9. TriBi

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    hehe - and I'm sure Dave won't mind me confessing that I was the one who did the kicking :wink:

    We're good cyber buddies now (and have been for a while) - hell, I proposed him for Modship (because he deserved it - you only have to read some of his posts to know why, LOL).

    Anyway - don't worry - you didn't do anything that hasn't been done before (and that likely a lot of us would have done in the same circumstances) so dive in here and enjoy.

    No problem! :icon_bigg
     
  10. Kimi

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    Thanks guys!!

    That meat to me alot!!

    It's good to know that there are some people who got kicked out ### here!!

    Yes!! Finally I could have some fun without feeling guilt:king:

    Thanks guys(*hug*) (*hug*) (*hug*)