Would opposite-sex cheating bother you?

Hmm ... I agree about the kissing part, at least when I try to simulate it in my brain, I don't think i'll mind at ALL if my *future* bf will kiss a girl.
About sexual acts I don't know, cheating of any kind is bad, but if we both know and accept it then I don't think I would mind either way ?
But ye never had bf so can't really say ...

 

I'm not in a relationship, but I can say this.
Cheating in any form is intolerable.
People should ask first; is that so hard to comprehend?

 

Yes, cheating is cheating, and regardless of if my girlfriend was gay, it's still sex and she'd have done it for a reason.

 

yes of course I would!! cheating is wrong no matter what gender you cheat with!! >.<

 

Any type of cheating bothers me.

 

Cheating always bothers me.

 

Not if I got to watch

 

Yes, I'd be somewhat irritated

 

I'd be livid regardless of what gender he cheated with. He could say goodbye to his car tires, that's for sure.

 

It would bother me MORE actually. I'd rather my girlfriend cheated on me with another girl than with a guy. Being with another girl would still make me feel hurt/angry, but it doesn't compare to how livid I would be if she did something with a guy. I don't want her cheating with ANY gender, but men are definitely more threatening to me and set me off more.

 

It's cheating,
Same motives and thoughts behind it.

 

I'm not sure how someone being cheated on with someone of the opposite sex is any worse, especially when the "I can't compete" argument is used. They cheated, what's there to compete with?

 

The cheating all together would bother me equally.

 

I guess I should explain my point of view further.

Now if I were a gay male, I might view both types of cheating to be equal, but as a lesbian, I don't. Gay men can fit into our phallocentric culture (making gay vs straight sex more comparable in mechanics), while lesbians cannot (making lesbian vs straight sex vastly different and more misunderstood).

I'm used to being spit on and tossed aside as an inferior in favor of heterosexual relationships. To the point of worrying about my potential gf not validating me as a partner, even if she never cheats. Because of that, I find opposite sex cheating to be worse. If I'm cheated on for a girl, I'd still feel very hurt; but I don't don't feel completely unequal. If I'm left for a guy, I have more worries and questions like "Does that mean she'll tell everyone this guy was her first and not me?" "Does this mean that all women need a penis to be complete?"

I mean yeah, I'm against cheating with both genders, and being left for a girl still sucks. But I didn't spend decades being told that I was inferior to other women, I spent it being told that I was inferior to men.

 

Hell yes and she's find her stuff on front lawn it's my house if or it's hers l will leave . To be honest she would be dead to me after that

 

I guess it depends on how far things go with the scenario. I can see your point in a general sense, but if it led to them winding up in a relationship with someone else(that somehow lasts), I'd feel worse with it being a girl over another guy. "I can't compete" would be a valid point then, particularly if they were closeted.

I'd hope cheating wouldn't occur with anyone though and it'd be sad regardless.

 

Of course. What would be my reaction to it? Probably try to work it out. I'm maybe understanding and forgiving to a fault.

 

Cheating is wrong regardless, but I know what you mean! If I was cheated on with a guy it honestly wouldn't bother me that much (id actually kinda find it funny!) because there's no way I can compete with guys, and yeah I don't really find guys as "threatening". And I would get jealous if cheated on by a girl because I could actually compare myself to her!

 

Tell it falling I agree with this I'd be so mad :tantrum: