A few questions for gay ppl :)

1.) Beauty is in the eye of the beholder...I think everyone is hot to someone ^^

2.) No idea...

 

That is the eternal question. It's not unique to gay people and the amount of people who meet from parties or think you have to meet at a bar or party is greatly over exaggerated.

 

1. Do u think that a gay guy who's not that hot can find someone for himself?

Yes because to be fair, there are plenty of other gay guys who are not that hot.

2. Where do u find other gay ppl if you're not into drinking, partying etc?

I hardly ever find any gays other than on dating apps and I haaate it.

 

EVERYONE has someone that will love them. There's always at least one person that thinks you're gorgeous.
I'm not sure about the meeting people thing though. I only know people from school.

 

Not all the dating apps are based entirely on sex. Though I agree with not wanting to use them...I'd prefer doing things the personal way with face-to-face conversation. ( though I'm terrible at it myself ) =/

 

1. Yes, you'll find someone. Hot may get you laid quicker, but won't get you a real relationship any faster. That's about who you are as a person.

2. There are other venues besides bars, depending on the size of your community. If you've a local gay asssociation check them out. We've a chorus, hiking club, various sports groups, bowling, volunteer groups, gay friendly churches, groups for bears, seniors, teens. Even the bars are attract a different crowd on afternoons and off nights, rather than the typical Friday and Saturday nights, and are more about connecting as people and conversation.

Good luck
(*hug*)

 

Agreed.

 

Dating apps can be fun though

But to answer #1... Yes, definitely. Everyone has their own idea of "hot", or "attractive". What I find attractive can be someone you don't like at all. And besides that, good looks aren't everything. Personality, character, interests, the list goes on. There's so much more to a person than just hot//not.

#2. I have no idea, with the sidenote that I do like partying but that's no recipe for success either. There's the reason why I moved to dating apps :lol:

 

1) Yes, absolutely. Beauty is (for better or worse) a very fickle and varying subject from person-to-person. Therefore, there will always be someone there to appreciate any kind of beauty.

2) Online dating, LGBTQ centers, march rallies, friends of friends, etc.

 

1. Sure. Looks aren't everything.

2. I've always just happened upon gay people by chance. I also wear a rainbow bracelet, which people sometimes notice.

 

1. There's someone for everyone

2. Honestly besides online, mutual friends is probably one of the best ways.

 

1) Yes, it's easily possible. I know plenty of average-looking gay guys (including me) who have boyfriends/husbands. Some of them would even be considered ugly by some standards. It's rather strange to think that it's not something that can happen.

2) Literally anywhere. There are guys who go to bars with friends who don't drink, or you could come across them in other places ranging from cafés to concerts to in a class or at work.

 

1. In my country, most of the gay guys are like clones - ego-maniacal, self-absorbed, gym-slave drones with the same hairstyles, clothes and mannerisms. It's like a cult! In my opinion that makes a guy ugly - that trying to fit into the 'gay guy' image as represented in the pop culture. Regular looking guys who know who they are and what they want from life, a relationship.. are waaay better, IMO. (But then again, to each his own ) Because, in the end we all want someone who gets us, someone we can talk to.. So, as many people said, beauty really is in the eye of the beholder.

2. Anywhere really. I'm sure there were guys checking you out in the most random places, you just probably weren't paying attention