a bi guy who is 26 and a virgin + never dated

I wouldn't say It's a bad thing. There's no rush. Sure, you'll be inexperienced to others but there are guys/girls who will respect that out there.

I don't have experience either really...and we're close in age. I'm fine with waiting for relationship/sexual things when the opportunity strikes me instead of worrying about it.

 

I'm 29 haven't had penetrative sex... I guess it'll happen when it happens...

 

I'm pretty inexperienced myself--I've only ever been with a girl so when it comes to guys I'm a total blank slate. Honestly I'd find it comforting if I were dating a guy my age who was similarly inexperienced.

 

hey baccardi,

Take my opinion as you will, because I am in the same scenario. I have no experience, I don't know how I'd react and simply put I've had no action of any kind. It's actually a little relieving to see I'm not the only one, albeit it I'm a little younger.

I don't think it's a bad thing at all. Sometimes when I think to myself about it, I feel it's a bad thing and nobody likes me. You might be able to relate to at least the first one that you're not sure if it is a good or bad thing.

All that matters in my opinion is whether you are ok with it. People tell me that my time will come and I'll find someone (one or two of them are also the ones who also friend-zone me though!)
But I'm sure a time will come you meet someone who feels right at the right time, just make sure you take the opportunity when it comes, with the usual caution making sure they're into you etc.

 

I'm also equally inexperienced with guys (and girls :lol and I think I'd like to find a guy who's equally inexperienced.

But to the OP, I don't think there's nothing wrong with being 26 and inexperienced. It will be awkward when you start dating, I assume, but I guess that's part of the fun. If a guy makes fun of you or rejects you because of your inexperience, he's more than certainly not the right guy.

 

I don't find it to be unusual. I'm 20 and haven't had sex yet and a lot of people my age have, it will happen when the times right. I think it's better to wait until you're with someone to share your first kiss and everything else with.

 

Ok, we need to have a real-life meetup to cry over our extreme virginities as a group lol. Who's in? XD

 

I don't get the joke....

 

But, do you find men/women attractive? Do you wish to date them, have sex with them? Maybe you're simply asexual.. or maybe you just need to get out more esp to places where you'd be able to meet different types of people 'cause I'm sure he/she is waiting for you. ^^

 

OH I get it now! I love your sense of humor, haha

 

No, nothing is wrong with that. Don't let anyone pressure you to do anything.

 

I don't think there is anything wrong with it. I have never been in a relationship or had intercourse with a guy before... But I want it happen with the right guy, I really think it doesn't matter how long you wait as long as you are comfortable then its fine. Also as other posters have said, if someone rejects you because of your inexperience they aren't worth your time anyway.

 

Where are the sign ups located?

Why does this thread brighten up my mood a little?

@baccardi123 Just hold onto that for several years and I will be up there(oh wait, then you'll be several years older as well, keeping you in a continuous lead...*duh moment*).

It's like a catch 22. It feels a little amusing to pretty much have done nothing up til now in a way. On the other hand, it's like one of those things that hits you like 'dang, I really have done nothing, huh...'.

It seems so foreign, haha. I find kissing particularly, as an example, to be kinda...ek though(not as in disgusted but something I just can't bring myself to do; not even an experiment), so I guess I really will be waiting for someone special. o.o

Hmm...