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Lesbian and bisexual women would you date a woman with kids or a kid ?

Discussion in 'Chit Chat' started by stocking, Mar 31, 2014.

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  1. stocking

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    Personally I don't think i would , I'm not good with kids plus I don't want to have to look after them and something bad happens . Plus it's hard with a woman with kids first you have to impress her and if the kid doesn't like you you lose out . Plus I prefer to make my own family if that makes sense I don't know if I want kids or not but if I did , I would marry and then have the kid
    What do you guys think ?
    Plus I seen a woman like on a dating site and she has a kid it sucks but I still have the hots for her she wants more kids with another woman but I don't know
     
    #1 stocking, Mar 31, 2014
  2. IphisAndIanthe

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    I wouldn't be deterred.
     
    #2 IphisAndIanthe, Apr 1, 2014
  3. ChloeKiss

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    I don't think an 18 year old could handle a girlfriend with a kid/kids. So I would say no. But if I fell deeply in love with a girl when I get into my late 20's I for sure would give it a shot. At the moment I am too young.
     
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    It's certainly not something I'd be looking for, but it wouldn't put me off. I'm great with kids so it really wouldn't bother me much.
     
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    Yes
    I love kids:grin:
     
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    Like Chloe, I don't think I should be going out with anyone with kids at this age, but I definitely would be fine with it later in life. :slight_smile:
     
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    I'd rather not, I don't like kids. For a serious relationship you have to plan ahead and I wouldn't want to live with kids. I don't want to date someone who wants to have kids either.
     
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    If I was the age to date people with kids (like some others have said) then I don't think I'd mind really.
     
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    I wouldn't now, but in my mid-20s and later I wouldn't have any problem with it. I don't want to deal with kids anytime soon.
     
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    If I was "in the market" I certainly wouldn't be so put-off by the existence of children that it would keep me from considering someone I was otherwise attracted to.

    But that's me...if you don't like kids and/or would prefer to avoid parenting experiences, then you definitely should not.
     
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    I would. I do have kids myself so hopefully they would get along.
     
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    No, I couldn't. I'm just not a kid person. :astonished:
     
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    No, not a fan of children and I don't want any, ever.
     
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    Maybe.
     
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    I'd love to. Serious relationship or not I would like to. As long as we love each other there is no problem. I can even help her with the child if she wants. I love kids, I am a future nurse, I am pretty motherly and children like me a lot. I know how to take care of one and also I do babysitting. So it's an yes!
     
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    It's not something I'm looking for but if I happen to fall for a woman with a child, I wouldn't automatically be turned off. I love kids and I'm also in my mid twenty's so it's not like I couldn't support them. I guess it still depends, I don't think I would if she had two children, because I might want to have one myself one day and children are a lot of work. So I guess I'll go with maybe :stuck_out_tongue_closed_eyes:
     
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    Smart Girl! :slight_smile:
     
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    I would, but at the same time I am also 24 years of age. I would not care if my partner, male or female has kids. I would love and treat them as if they were my own, and if we were to get married. I would adopt them as my own.
     
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    For me maybe if I was 27 or 28 I'm kinda knew to the whole lesbian thing I kinda want my girlfriend all too myself . but I've seen women who had a kid or kids make time to date and have sex with their lovers so I don't know maybe i'm being selfish :lol:
     
    #19 stocking, Apr 1, 2014
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