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bisexuals, where do you lean?

Discussion in 'Chit Chat' started by ba92, Apr 3, 2014.

  1. ba92

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    Just curious to see where this forum's bisexuals lean towards.
     
  2. drwinchester

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    Depends. Right now I'm leaning towards women. But I'll go days, even weeks where I shift to one side over another.
     
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    At the moment men I also shift from one side to the other.
     
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    Well, I'm in a LDR with a guy for the rest of my life I've only desired women. In fact I didn't even know I was bi until last year. I still don't look at guys in general and get any feelings of desire like my straight or bi friends. What little physical desire I have for my BF isn't visual, it's something else, like magnetic. So I guess I'm like 90/10 bi, but that 10% is 100% of my love right now.
     
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    These days I'm leaning towards women...
     
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    I lean heavily towards guys, and very rarely a woman turns me on. Always thought I was gay until I realized I watch specific females in porn. Realized I was bi very recently, but yeah. Mostly gay.
     
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    I tend to lean a bit more towards women, in the sense that I would find it easier to find a woman I'd be attracted too. I think it's that I have a broader taste for women where I tend to be more picky in my tastes for guys. As such I'm more likely to encounter women I like.

    Having said that, when I find someone I like, I can be attracted to them with the same intensity regardless of whether they are a man or woman. So in terms of taste and likely to find a partner I'm probably about 70/30 to women, but in regards to the intensity of attraction to each gender, I'm 50/50.

    I guess these things aren't always that straight forward :slight_smile:

    Happy days :slight_smile:
     
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    Was convinced I was bi curious at 18 but after the last 4 years I'm now 29 I think I'm actually a closeted lesbian.But do Feel there is a lot of stigma attached to those who are bi.
     
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    I lean more toward men. But I haven't actually dated a girl yet so idk if that would change it.
     
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    probably like 60/40 women
     
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    I usually prefer women but that are certain times I prefer men more.
     
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    I'm about right in the middle I think. At the moment I prefer women, but that will probably change once I start on hormones >_>
     
  14. TheStudent

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    I have a strong preference towards males.
     
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    Usually on the arm of a chair, or against a wall. I try not to lean overly on friends and lovers. In public, pillars or columns can be good if you can find them. But if I'm really tired, I'll pretty much lean anywhere...stair railings, trees, you name it.
     
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    It fluctuates. Sometimes I'm more into guys, sometimes I'm more into girls.

    :lol:
     
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    Girls girls girls. I might be gay though. Sometimes I like men, but I find girls way more attractive.
     
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    I literally laughed out loud. Anyway, I'm one of those rare (?) 50-50 cases. I don't recall any periods of varying preferences. It took me longer to accept my attraction to guys though.
     
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    That has been difficult for me of late.
    Usually I lean more towards guys but I have found myself attracted to women more of late.
     
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    About 80/20 men