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SonofaPastor · 23rd Jul 2008, 10:13 PM

I started an account on dating site and someone on there who lives in my area contacted me. This is great because I live in a small area so I we started chatting and it turns out this guy knows my brother and his wife pretty well (it's a small town area... Everyone knows everyone). The conversation pretty much went...

Me: So, do you know >insert my sister in law's name here<
Him: Yah, she's one of my closest friends.
Me: Well she's my sister-in-law.
Him: 0_0
Me: What?
Him: So that would make you >insert my brother's name here<'s brother?
Me: Ummmm... Yaaaaah...
Him: So that would me you pastor >insert my father's name here<'s son?
Me: Obviously.
Him: I have know idea what to think about that...

It isn't someone who knows my dad very well and the only time we could have possibly met was at my brother's wedding (he also know my best friend pretty well and a few people I work with) but he was pretty shocked to find out who I was. Small town... So everyone knows everyone.
I find this all very amusing.

Mind Freak · 23rd Jul 2008, 10:24 PM

Haha. Me too.

shakerdancee · 23rd Jul 2008, 10:39 PM

This is hot.

Hoppip · 23rd Jul 2008, 10:41 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by shakerdancee

This is hot.

You're hot.

Oh and about this thread.

That's a funny coincidence. Maybe he did your dad or something.

Mind Freak · 23rd Jul 2008, 10:50 PM

Lmao.
That would be WEIRD!

shakerdancee · 24th Jul 2008, 07:02 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by seanathon

Quote:

Originally Posted by shakerdancee

This is hot.

You're hot.

Oh and about this thread.

That's a funny coincidence. Maybe he did your dad or something.

I'm pretty sure your dad did him.

And Sean you're not so bad yourself

Alexander · 24th Jul 2008, 07:16 PM

That's SO awkward. But it's cool too. Now you know someone else who's gay in your town

blpate · 24th Jul 2008, 08:07 PM

what site did you use, out of curiosity?

SamAlex728 · 24th Jul 2008, 10:06 PM

yeah, it's like that in Harrisburg (where I used to live)
with only 4 schools (2 elementaries, until recently and one turned into a church) everyone knows everyone, especially when the kids from both elementaries have to go to the same MS and HS

And then the private school kids joined in for MS and HS too

I knew everyone basically

Oregon has way too many small towns

Andrew · 24th Jul 2008, 10:27 PM

wow thats awkward. Just please be careful though :]

-Luis

24th Jul 2008, 10:48 PM

thats actually pretty cool. i kinda wish i lived in a town like that but oh well.

just stay careful though.

Hydrogen · 24th Jul 2008, 10:51 PM

Wow, must be a real small town.
That would just feel strange to me.

avagabondprince · 25th Jul 2008, 06:44 PM

So what hapened then? Did he feel weird cuz he knew your family? People in small towns don't just know each other--they know each other's business too. Any fall-out from chatting with him?

23rd Jul 2008, 10:13 PM	#1
SonofaPastor Member Regular Member Gender: Male Orientation: Gay Out Status: If anyone asks I'll tell them Location: Oregon Age: 23 Posts: 46 Join Date: Jun 2008	So I was talking to this guy I found on dating website I started an account on dating site and someone on there who lives in my area contacted me. This is great because I live in a small area so I we started chatting and it turns out this guy knows my brother and his wife pretty well (it's a small town area... Everyone knows everyone). The conversation pretty much went... Me: So, do you know >insert my sister in law's name here< Him: Yah, she's one of my closest friends. Me: Well she's my sister-in-law. Him: 0_0 Me: What? Him: So that would make you >insert my brother's name here<'s brother? Me: Ummmm... Yaaaaah... Him: So that would me you pastor >insert my father's name here<'s son? Me: Obviously. Him: I have know idea what to think about that... It isn't someone who knows my dad very well and the only time we could have possibly met was at my brother's wedding (he also know my best friend pretty well and a few people I work with) but he was pretty shocked to find out who I was. Small town... So everyone knows everyone. I find this all very amusing. __________________

23rd Jul 2008, 10:24 PM	#2
Mind Freak Hey y'all (It's a southern thang);D Full Member Gender: Male Orientation: Uh? Bi! Out Status: HOLY COW [at least 10] WHOLE PEOPLE! ;) Age: 19 Posts: 755 Join Date: Jul 2008	Re: So I was talking to this guy I found on dating website Haha. Me too.

23rd Jul 2008, 10:39 PM	#3
shakerdancee Oom-pah! Regular Member Gender: Male Orientation: Not sure Out Status: Anyone who asks Location: California Age: 19 Posts: 304 Join Date: Mar 2008	Re: So I was talking to this guy I found on dating website This is hot.

23rd Jul 2008, 10:50 PM	#5
Mind Freak Hey y'all (It's a southern thang);D Full Member Gender: Male Orientation: Uh? Bi! Out Status: HOLY COW [at least 10] WHOLE PEOPLE! ;) Age: 19 Posts: 755 Join Date: Jul 2008	Re: So I was talking to this guy I found on dating website Lmao. That would be WEIRD!

24th Jul 2008, 07:16 PM	#7
Alexander EC Addict Full Member Gender: Male Out Status: Out to everyone Location: Red Hook NY Age: 19 Posts: 2,736 Join Date: Dec 2007	Re: So I was talking to this guy I found on dating website That's SO awkward. But it's cool too. Now you know someone else who's gay in your town

24th Jul 2008, 08:07 PM	#8
blpate Member Regular Member Gender: Male Orientation: Gay Out Status: Family, lots of friends and continuing the process Location: South Carolina Posts: 36 Join Date: Jul 2008	Re: So I was talking to this guy I found on dating website what site did you use, out of curiosity?

24th Jul 2008, 10:06 PM	#9
SamAlex728 EC Addict Full Member Gender: I'm a real boy! Orientation: Expert Cockgazer Out Status: Open Flame Location: Hippieville, Oregon Age: 16 Posts: 2,842 Join Date: Feb 2008	Re: So I was talking to this guy I found on dating website yeah, it's like that in Harrisburg (where I used to live) with only 4 schools (2 elementaries, until recently and one turned into a church) everyone knows everyone, especially when the kids from both elementaries have to go to the same MS and HS And then the private school kids joined in for MS and HS too I knew everyone basically Oregon has way too many small towns __________________ "Boys are dumb. Men are pigs. Females are fucking crazy. Makes life difficult." -- Me

24th Jul 2008, 10:27 PM	#10
Andrew hugeee. Full Member Gender: Male Orientation: Gay Out Status: A few people Location: Illinois Posts: 550 Join Date: May 2008	Re: So I was talking to this guy I found on dating website wow thats awkward. Just please be careful though :] -Luis

24th Jul 2008, 10:48 PM	#11
lovekh2 Guest Posts: n/a	Re: So I was talking to this guy I found on dating website thats actually pretty cool. i kinda wish i lived in a town like that but oh well. just stay careful though.

24th Jul 2008, 10:51 PM	#12
Hydrogen OMG a Gay Smokey Full Member Gender: Male Orientation: Gay Out Status: Out to everyone Location: Florida Age: 23 Posts: 408 Join Date: Apr 2007	Re: So I was talking to this guy I found on dating website Wow, must be a real small town. That would just feel strange to me.

25th Jul 2008, 06:44 PM	#13
avagabondprince Newbie Regular Member Gender: Male Orientation: Gay Out Status: Some people Location: Tampa, FL Age: 25 Posts: 9 Join Date: Jul 2008	Re: So I was talking to this guy I found on dating website So what hapened then? Did he feel weird cuz he knew your family? People in small towns don't just know each other--they know each other's business too. Any fall-out from chatting with him?

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