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How do I deal with my friend who I hook up with?

Discussion in 'Chit Chat' started by impulse, Apr 8, 2014.

  1. impulse

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    So, I am FWB with this boy (I am 15 and he is 16) We don't have sex or anything we just fool around, make-out, stuff like that, ANYWAY, he is so sweet to me when we are alone and he treats me like I am the only girl he could ever be with, but the minute we stop kissing he starts talking about all the girls he hooks up with and how I'm not as good as them, and he isn't even hooking up with other girls, he makes it up. He is also really mean to me at school now and every time I text him he is like "I can't dirty talk you now" and I'm like right now I just wanna be friends with you, thats what we were first and I hate how he can't even look at me anymore when we aren't kissing or doing stuff like that.

    What do I do? Do I talk to him about how I feel? or do I just let it go?

    I just haven't gotten any advice from anyone so yeah :/ :bang::bang::bang:
     
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    Man he is sure being a jerk
     
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    If it were me, I'd stop talking to him completely and see how long it takes for his attitude to change, but that option isn't for everybody.
     
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    I think this is the best advice
     
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    I agree, I'd stop talking to him and see if he changed, if he stops talking to you then he wasn't a true friend anyways
     
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    He sounds like a dick. If I were you, I'd dump him and find someone who treats you like you matter and are deserving of respect....
     
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    It sounds like he needs to get his head out of his behind and learn how to treat people with respect.

    Agree with the others here - ignore him (And that includes him trying to fool around with you) until he either apologizes and starts treating you properly (and that means both before and after any further fooling around you may do) or you determine he's not worth your time and move on.

    Todd