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Bisexuals: do you have a preference?

Discussion in 'Chit Chat' started by Cubiculum, Apr 8, 2014.

  1. Cubiculum

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    Bisexuals on here, do you have a gender preference?

    I'm bisexual and I heavily lean towards guys, but I also like girls.
     
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    I like girls a bit more, but I like guys a bit too. I'll probably date girls more, as I'm pretty masculine and I'll probably intimidate most guys.
     
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    Eh, it's a little complicated. I prefer girls overall, but I am also completely dick obsessed. Ehe. ^_^
     
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    I have a slight leaning toward women. Sexually, I find both *amazingly* hot. Romantically, I tend to fall for women, but I've been known to fall for a man here and there. I cannot *imagine* living with a man, though...although this could just be a limitation on my imagination. I dunno, though...I've got a pretty good imagination, lol.
     
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    I tend to fall for guys, romantically speaking, though I have such feelings for girls too. It's more of a mental issue, I fall for the personality.
    I'm confused on the sexual aspect, cause I can only imagine me having sex with women. But I like kissing men too.
     
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    I'd say I prefer guys. I'm more apt to fall for a guy, but I still notice attractive girls and could see myself dating a girl at some point.
     
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    This is me all the way!!
     
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    I think :confused:
     
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    Honestly, i don't really know, even though my sexual orientation says preference for girls. The truth is, I had my first girlfriend this year. Technically, we dated for about a month, even though it was on and off for about 3-4 months. Anyways, I wouldn't know because I only dated the same. But if I had to answer this, I would say girls. I can see myself dating guys, and maybe marrying them, but at this point in time, I prefer females.
     
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    I prefer women 90% of the time
     
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    I like both but I prefur guys over girls I think both are hot but guys turn me on more
     
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    Eh, every time I begin to start wondering if I like one more than the other, I'll notice an attractive member of the other one that puts me back in the middle again. :lol:
     
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    Sexually I think girls are veeryy attractive! But emotionally I can see myself with any gender and anyone in between, it doesn't matter to me.
     
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    Sexually attracted to both, with a slight preference for females; romantically attracted to males a lot more.
     
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    I'm kind of torn. Sometimes I like women more and other times I like men more.
     
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    I have only dated men, so from what I can tell I have a preference for men. I like girls and have had a few crushes, even thought of myself dating a girl. I can usually only see myself marrying a guy though. But who knows
     
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    It's complicated. Women are more likely to turn my head in passing as I have a broader taste in girls whereas I have quite particular tastes in guys. As such, I would probably be more likely to find a girl than a guy.

    That said though, I can be attracted to each with the same intensity regardless of the gender of my partner if they are my type.

    So yeh, in terms of finding a compatible person, I'm probably about 72/25 towards women whereas if you put a guy and girl in front of me that I found attractive it would be 50/50.

    Happy days :slight_smile:
     
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    I'd never thought about it in that way, but I can identify a lot with what you're saying there! If when I'm out and about I see a stranger and I think "oooh, they're cute!" (which I do a lot, haha), it's much more likely to be a girl than a guy, but I do find certain guys attractive, and same, if you put "mr. perfect" and "miss perfect" in front of me, I don't think I'd have an easy time deciding.
     
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    It's a bit of a balance with guys and girls, but there are a few differences with initial attraction. Typically I'm more so sexually attracted to guys at first than romantically attracted. The opposite goes for girls with romantic attraction being more stronger than sexual attraction.

    There are some exceptions and the more I get to know potential partner, the more I feel attracted both ways to said potential partner.
     
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    I am way more attracted to girls ... so much that I've been confused a few month ago, and didn't know anymore if I was lesbian or bi !
    I figured out that I would still be interested in guys, i could probably date a guy, and maybe have feeling for them; however, i don't see myself ending up with a guy!
    You could say that i'm totally bi (50/50) sexually, but i am romantically mostly attracted to girls ! :icon_wink