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Adult !! anyone been offered oral sex by the opposite sex , after you told them you

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  1. stocking

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    I don't know if some of the men I was friends with figured I was lesbian but when I did not want to sleep with them they would offer oral sex strictly as a way to get me to sleep with them . One man even said just lay back and close your eyes I'll just give you oral .
    I've been offered this a few times by guys after refusing to sleep with them one guy even winked at me and said I'm really good at licking .
    I didn't think much of this until online I told a guy who messaged me on another site that I 'm a lesbian and he offered oral . So Do these men know I was gay but offered oral in hopes to try to sleep with me ? have this ever happened to you ?
    I also told them I was not attracted to them they would look all shocked and offer oral

    I don't know if this is in the right place
     
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    Re: Adult !! anyone been offered oral sex by the opposite sex , after you told them

    Is this the same boss that was sexually harassing you?
     
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    Re: Adult !! anyone been offered oral sex by the opposite sex , after you told them

    No , it was a guy that lived in my town and another guy I met at my job
     
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    I know a lot of people don't think oral sex is "full sex" in the straight world, and sadly a LOT of men will offer it to force a woman to sleep with him. Even if It's a straight woman who actually likes him and wants to wait for marriage. He'll say "Oh it's okay, you can still wait for marriage, just suck my dick until then".

    These people are fucking pigs; sex still needs to evolve so it isn't defined in such a way that promotes rape culture so badly.
     
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    Re: Adult !! anyone been offered oral sex by the opposite sex , after you told them

    As a man I can honestly say no, women don't typically offer gay men oral I think
     
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    Re: Adult !! anyone been offered oral sex by the opposite sex , after you told them

    No, but I have had women hit on me before and refuse to believe that I'm gay.
     
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    Re: Adult !! anyone been offered oral sex by the opposite sex , after you told them

    I hadn't got this yet but heard of straight couple doing this and still thinking their virgins but the guys mostly offer to give me oral sex . Which I find weird :confused:

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    I probably would get this if I was out but most women don't believe I'm lesbian and I bet the men would be worse
     
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    Re: Adult !! anyone been offered oral sex by the opposite sex , after you told them

    I don't have anything insightful to suggest or to say, but that's just disgusting. :| Those men really need to back off. I'm sorry they're treating you like that. :<
     
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    Re: Adult !! anyone been offered oral sex by the opposite sex , after you told them

    niko your pro pic:?I LOVE THAT GAME ITS SO FUN IT HASNT COME OUT BUT MY FAMILY IS A GAMING FAMILY AND WE KNOW PEOPLE ITS SO FUNN!!!!!!!!!!! UGGGHHHH
     
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    Yeah honestly I think anyone offering oral as a pickup line is just someone who is asking to be disregarded, that is far too promiscuous for my taste. Have a conversation for crying out loud.
     
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    I know right
     
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    Re: Adult !! anyone been offered oral sex by the opposite sex , after you told them

    Yes . When I was 19 and drinking at a bar with a few mates this girl came up to me she was about 20 anyway she started coming on to me even feeling me up:eek:.am soon pushing her away telling her to f#ck off as you do I found out later on that it was a set up:tantrum: my cousin told her to do it try to prove I wasn't gay worst still my dad was Taking the piss about it a few days later .
     
  15. drwinchester

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    Ugh. I hate people like that.

    But funny story. My boyfriend was approached by a prostitute while I was out with him this last weekend. It was right out in front of the hotel we were staying at, kinda late, and I'd popped in to inquire about vacancies. I popped out to go fetch him and there he is, playing up the fact that he's gay to dissuade her. (Even though he's bisexual. He had a lot of women hitting on him but he kept saying 'oh I'm gay and I have a BOYfriend') he was nice about it though. We actually helped her with directions and she told us her lifestory.
     
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    Re: Adult !! anyone been offered oral sex by the opposite sex , after you told them

    Well, there was this one time a guy wrote me on a dating site and asked if I wanted to use a strap-on on him. That was before I successfully blocked men from contacting me on dating sites. There sure are a lot of creeps out there. Don't bother talking to guys like that.
     
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    Re: Adult !! anyone been offered oral sex by the opposite sex , after you told them

    Wow people are crazy these days and won't take no for an answer
     
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    alright come her stocking imma teach u the one two punch, to use on the menfolk of ur town, and for fun

    get the fist and curl it up, i will teach

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    a fist is more effective than the fifteenth no - gandhi